A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud. Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can…
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We're finally sharing the news we've been holding close to our hearts. ❤️ After months away, Alix & Kayla are back to explain where they've been—and why. In this deeply personal episode, they open up about the life-changing journey that's been happening behind the scenes: after nearly four years of infertility, pregnancy loss, and navigating the emotional rollercoaster of surrogacy, they're…
Can you still call yourself a lesbian if you’re married to a man? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one listener story that immediately sent them into a spiral of questions, nuance, and identity politics. After a Sister Wife writes in to share that she’s identified as a lesbian her entire life—except for one unexpected exception: her husband—the conversation turns into a deep dive on…
What does it actually mean to be a late-in-life lesbian … and is there even such a thing as “too late”? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community: realizing you’re queer later in life. From women coming out in their 30s, 40s, and beyond to the grief, freedom, and total identity spiral that can come with it, this conversation is equal…
In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla spiral into one of the most accidentally hilarious conversations yet after realizing an ex might be lurking on their podcast TikTok. What starts as a simple “wait… does she listen?” quickly turns into a full-blown conversation about exes, boundaries, social media stalking, and the very lesbian art of never fully disappearing from each other’s lives. From…
What actually counts as a divorceable offense … and what’s just relationship growing pains? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most complex (and very requested) topics from the Sister Wives community: divorce. From lighthearted “would you leave me for this?” scenarios to deeply personal listener stories, they unpack what really pushes relationships to the breaking point—and what…
What happens when loyalty, love, and timing all collide… and someone crosses the ultimate friendship line? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the messiest (and most talked-about) relationship dynamics: hooking up with a friend’s ex. Using the latest Bravo drama as a jumping-off point, they break down the viral love triangle that has everyone asking the same question— is this…
What happens when you ask the internet for their most chaotic strap-on stories? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of their wildest listener-submitted topics yet—and you guys absolutely delivered. From TSA agents pulling harnesses out of carry-ons to dogs sprinting through the house with a strap-on in their mouth, the stories are equal parts hilarious, horrifying, and way too relatable.…
What happens when great chemistry meets… not-so-great sexual compatibility? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla respond to a vulnerable listener question about navigating intimacy with a “baby gay” partner who’s never been with a woman—and isn’t quite enjoying sex yet. From struggling to orgasm to feeling unsure about what actually feels good, they unpack the many layers that could be at play.…
What does it actually mean to be masc or femme … and who decided the rules? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most unexpectedly heated topics in the Sister Wives community: masc vs. femme beauty standards. After a TikTok clip sparked a wave of strong opinions, they unpack the nuance behind it all—reading real listener comments, challenging their own perspectives, and asking the…
Alix and Kayla are back with a quickie—but this one spirals into a very juicy conversation 👀 In this episode, they dive into the internet drama surrounding a longtime influencer whose life took a major turn—from young marriage and mommy-vlogger perfection to divorce, coming out, and now… a rumored (and confirmed?) throuple. They unpack everything: The timeline of her relationship and coming out…