A podcast by Violet Lange on dating, relationships, lineage & legacy, for luminaries of love. Here we explore radical romance, real love stories, and multi-dimensional intimacy. Because love isn’t just about finding “the one.” It’s about being the match for bold love in every area of life…from friendship to community, creativity to calling, ancestry to ecology. It’s about creating the life of your dreams and living passionately ever after. In this podcast, Cosmic Matchmaker & Relationship…
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What if the thing keeping you from lasting love isn’t bad luck—but a pattern you can actually change? In this episode, I’m breaking down five of the most common patterns I see in dating and relationships: dating down for safety, being sexually shut down, hiding behind performance, overgiving, and trying to strategize your way into love. More importantly, we’ll look at how each pattern actually…
What happens when two people do the inner work, get radically honest about who they are and what they want…and then find each other? In this joyful conversation, Anu and Gabe share their cosmic queer love story—from psychedelic visions and dark nights of the soul to a first date in a cemetery, choosing each other, navigating enormous life initiations, and creating a marriage that generates more…
Do your connections keep fizzling out somewhere between a few dates and a few months? In this episode, we explore why getting to commitment isn't always about meeting more people or playing the dating game better. Sometimes the very strategies we use to seem desirable—playing it cool, overgiving, hiding what we really want—keep us from creating the relationship we're actually longing for. I share…
Can astrology help you create extraordinary love? In this episode, I sit down with astrologer and Oath Oracle founder Ayesha Durrani to explore what your birth chart can reveal about relationships, shadow work, self-awareness, and why your chart is never your destiny—it simply points you toward your greatest opportunities for growth and love. Connect with Ayesha ✨ Free Astrology Guide ✨ Venus…
Why do so many brilliant, successful people keep repeating the same painful relationship patterns? Listen to the surprising realization that transformed my love life forever, via my own journey from Harvard Business School and executive coaching to becoming a love coach. You'll learn why dating isn't a numbers game, how childhood patterns quietly shape attraction, and how to become a cycle breaker…
What if healing your nervous system could transform the way you love? In this conversation with herbalist Marysia Miernowska , we explore how plant allies, embodied practice, and nervous system regulation can help you break inherited relationship patterns and become more available for healthy, lasting love. I also share my own journey with the plants and how the School of the Sacred Wild changed…
Can you create extraordinary love after childhood trauma? In this deeply personal episode, I share my own journey of healing from childhood sexual abuse, incest, narcissistic family dynamics, and complex trauma—and the relationship patterns that kept me stuck for years. We explore why talk therapy alone often isn't enough, how attachment wounds shape dating, and the tools that helped me create…
How we lead ourselves shapes how we love. In this inspiring conversation, I'm joined by Julie Parker —founder of The Beautiful You Coaching Academy , Australia's leading life coach training organization. For more than two decades, Julie has mentored thousands of coaches, counsellors, and sacred leaders around the world, and is an award-winning author, speaker, and host of two top-ranking podcasts.…
What if extraordinary love isn't something you find... but something you create? In this episode, I share the blueprint for Divine Union, why trauma and conditioning distort our experience of love, and how becoming the match (instead of seeking, searching, swiping, or settling) changes everything. Together, we're remembering the blueprint for Divine Union... and reclaiming extraordinary love. ✨…
If you dream of becoming a mother but haven't yet met your beloved, this episode is for you. Violet explores one of the deepest fears many women carry: What if time is running out? She shares why you don't have to settle for the wrong partner just to have a baby, the many beautiful pathways to parenthood available today, and how to date from your deepest values instead of panic, scarcity or shame.…
