I spent yesterday in bed sobbing, laughing, writing, screaming, teaching, laughing, crying, all while being wretchedly sick here in beautiful sunny Virginia Beach.
Day 19 of my tragic Victorian Flop House Wasting Away Illness and I’m trying so hard to be a good patient. Wise, humble, optimistic, philosophical. To see the silver lining in everything—even the inside of my own stomach. But no one has ever accused me of being a stoic. I have zero poker face. What I feel is what you get! And I am full of feelings.
In yesterday’s high noon beautiful Aquarian Full Moon writing meditation led by the magical Lauren Francis, we were asked what made us different, and what gift that difference might offer our community.
I feel every single fucking thing I’m feeling, I wrote immediately. I’m in constant contact with my grief, rage, shame, tenderness, vulnerability, terror, love, joy, ecstasy—no matter how hard I try, I can’t seem to hide or evade or trick or shed or numb any of my feelings.
Every single little moment demands to be felt by me. To move through my heart and be worn across my face. Joy, sorrow, fear, hope, horror! My gift to the collective seems to be feeling all my fucking feelings, thus granting permission for other people to feel all their fucking feelings, too. You’re welcome.
So, I told myself yesterday. I can be a complete emotional wreck and a gift to my community. I can want and need and love so much my heart’s a fireworks show on the beach at sunset. I can turn my snotty saltwater tears into presents for fishes. I can crash on the shore, beat my fists bloody in the sand, and then build sand castles. I can have a sob and a smile that brings a rainbow down over the whole city of everyone.
For not everyone in the village can promise to always keep her feet on the ground, or even to always have feet. My feet have sometimes looked like paws, or talons, or the thunking end of a big powerful tail refusing to swim to the beat of anyone’s steel drum.
Here’s a preview of a few of the amazing magical writing workshops coming up in the Skool community—which you can join for $44/month!!
🍏 On Saturday 01 August, Lora Campbell of Seawitch Magic will be hosting Lughnasadh (pronounced Loo-na sah), a writing session celebrating the change of the season as winter nears, and to give thanks for the harvest that grew over summer!
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🦋 Monday August 3rd, Lauren Francis of Soluminance will be hosting a free-writing session
We’ll pull a oracle card to start, and then you are welcome to write about whatever comes up. You’re also welcome to bring any other writing you’re working on into this space.
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🌑 Wednesday August 12h Lora will be hosting the New Moon in Leo Eclipse
We’ll be asking what initiations are beginning and what old stories can burn away.
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🌕 Friday August 28th Lauren Francis will be hosting the Full Moon Eclipse Pisces
We’ll meditate and write into what’s ready to dissolve and what wants to be felt more fully.
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