# Transforming Trauma In-depth conversations about how to help individuals and communities thrive after Complex Trauma. In a modern world beset by trauma and a legacy of suffering, conflict and disconnection, healing trauma can serve as a vehicle for personal and social transformation. Interviews with mental health and other helping professionals who are using the NeuroAffective Relational Model® (NARM®), as well as other prominent trauma specialists, will highlight the current efforts to address the legacy of… Page: Feed: --- ## [Why Neurodivergent Clients Need Curiosity, Not Correction with Sabrena Ness](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-196) _2026-08-19_ A conversation on complex trauma, ADHD, autism, masking, therapist curiosity, and providing therapy that supports authenticity instead of conformity. Comparison is often cited as the thief of joy. For neurodivergent people, comparison is also a source of shame. Imagine receiving constant reminders that your brain doesn't respond well to, or "fit" with, the dominant societal structure. The… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/196_TT196_-_Neurodivergent_Clients_Need_Curiosity_Not_Correction_with_Sabrena_Ness.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Corazonada: Migration, Memory and Heartfulness with Dr. Annecy Báez](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-195) _2026-08-05_ How do we reconnect to ourselves after trauma, grief, and life's many transitions? We begin with curiosity and compassion. On this episode of Transforming Trauma , host Emily Ruth speaks with Dr. Annecy Báez, a Dominican American writer, psychotherapist, educator, and artist, about the profound impact NARM® has had on her personal and professional life. Together, they explore how curiosity,… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/195_TT195_-_Corazonada__Migration_Memory_and_Heartfulness_with_Dr._Annecy_Baez.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Raising Neurodivergent Kids Without Shame with Amanda Losch, NARM® Master Therapist](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-194) _2026-07-22_ How do you parent a neurodivergent family without constantly feeling like you're failing? You create your own supportive network. One therapist wasn't content with simply curating reviews of sensory-friendly playgroups and neighborhood events. Instead, she sought out somatic knowledge and a heart-centered way of being. What she found was a trauma-informed modality and a community of like-minded… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/194_TT194_-_Raising_Neurodivergent_Kids_Without_Shame_with_Amanda_Losch_NARM_Master_Therapist.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Beyond Attachment Styles: Secure Relating & Trauma Healing with Dr. Ann Kelley, Therapist Uncensored](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-193) _2026-07-08_ Attachment styles aren't your identity. Dr. Ann Kelley explains secure relating, modern attachment theory, trauma healing, nervous system regulation, relationship repair, shame reduction, and why emotional security is something we actively practice—not something we permanently achieve. How can we, as therapists, help people better understand themselves, improve their relationships, and reduce the… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/193_TT193_-_Beyond_Attachment_Styles__Secure_Relating__Trauma_Healing_with_Dr._Ann_Kelley_Therapist_Uncensored.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Therapy for Neurodivergent Clients with Dr. Sean Inderbitzen, author Neural Exercises for Autism](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-192) _2026-06-24_ How can therapists avoid the "diagnosis-as-identity" trap with neurodivergent clients? Working with autistic clients can feel incomplete at times. Newer clinicians or those who aren't neurodivergent may struggle with the dynamics of this unique client/therapist alliance, even as they collaborate on issues related to relationships and empathy. But one autistic psychotherapist and Mayo Clinic… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/192_TT192_-_Therapy_for_Neurodivergent_Clients_with_Dr._Sean_Inderbitzen_author_Neural_Exercises_for_Autism.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Living Alongside Grief: Boundaries, Love and What Doesn't Resolve with Samantha Montemayor](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-191) _2026-06-10_ How do therapists and survivors live alongside grief that never fully ends? Some grief doesn't resolve. It doesn't end when a relationship does, when someone gets sober, or when you finally set the boundary you'd been avoiding. Instead, we can learn to live alongside grief in ways that lead to healthier relationships and genuine intimacy. On this episode of Transforming Trauma , host Emily Ruth… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/TT191_-_Samantha_Montemayor_-_FINAL_-.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [What If Narcissism Is a Trauma Adaptation? with Dr. Mark Ettensohn](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-190) _2026-05-27_ Dr. Mark Ettensohn explains why narcissistic personality disorder is often misunderstood online—and how complex trauma, shame, attachment wounds, and identity shape pathological narcissism. Narcissism has become a buzz word on social media. It has moved from a psychological understanding to a term that is used for blaming, scapegoating, and other emotionally charged narratives. This polarization… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/190_TT190_-_What_If_Narcissism_Is_a_Trauma_Adaptation__with_Dr._Mark_Ettensohn.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Healing Shame and Guilt using NARM® with Dr. Laurence Heller](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-189) _2026-05-13_ Why shame isn't an emotion—but an adaptive survival process. Dr. Laurence Heller unpacks how the NeuroAffective Relational Model® (NARM®) reframes shame, identity, and developmental trauma for more effective clinical work. How do you define shame? Would you describe shame as an unproductive emotion or self-reproach? Or, would you dive headlong into examples, chronicling instances when you felt… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/189_TT189_-_Healing_Shame_and_Guilt_using_NARM_with_Dr._Laurence_Heller.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Music, Connection and Community with Tracy Rae Clark](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-188) _2026-04-29_ From altered states to embodied presence: Tracy Rae Clark on healing, music, and therapist development. We share stories to inform, inspire, and connect. They also serve as maps, helping people commemorate life experiences that have shaped their journeys. One NARM® practitioner inspires others by putting her stories into poems and lyrics, helping guide others in their own path to healing. Host… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/188_TT188_-_Music_Connection_and_Community_with_Tracy_Rae_Clark.mp3?dest-id=1801064) ## [Chovy's Blog: Agentic Coding (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/QW4QuvuNICV5) _2026-04-29 · **Sponsored**_ Personal posts on agentic coding, moshcode CLI, and security findings. ## [Dissociation Isn't What You Think: DID, Structural Dissociation & Therapist Confidence with Kathy Steele](https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma/episode-187) _2026-04-15_ Have you ever slipped so far into a daydream that you felt detached from reality, your emotions, or your sense of self? Brief moments of dissociation are understandable and can even preserve our mental well-being in times of intense stress. Persistent dissociation, however, is something else entirely. It's a maladaptation that often hints at layers of complex trauma—and that can intimidate… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/transformingtrauma/187_TT187_-_Dissociation_Isn_t_What_You_Think__DID_Structural_Dissociation__Therapist_Confidence_with_Kathy_Steele.mp3?dest-id=1801064)