UX in FOSS (without the rage)

There was a leaflet here that tried to be about UX in 'Open Source' (and in her case Obsidian which isn/t even open source) software generally sucking, but it devolved into weird race science and TERFy shit. It's since been deleted, but it did make me think about the software I use and enjoy both through the adoration i experience and the pain I suffer, and I want to write about it. Growing up I…