THE MOVE OF A FRIEND by Robin Shwedo ©: Robin Shwedo, 1987 Today, a friend of mine is moving out of state. We've both known for months about today, the date marked on two calendars. I've known her most of the four years she's been here. We met during a critical time in our lives: she was back in school, a mother of two, I, newly separated, in a new house, with double the kids. Fate had us go to…