thinking about my gender, or lack thereof

I don't think about my gender. I have identified as nonbinary and agender for about ten years at this point, and while I use they/them pronouns and ask that my partner and my friends use those pronouns for me, I don't really care if they happen to occasionally slip up or if a stranger misgenders me. I feel really detached from gender. I don't think of myself as a man or a woman - I think of myself…