# tammy (blogs) — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 2 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover tammy. Page: Feed: --- ## [Field notes: Creative adaptability](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/field-notes-creative-adaptability) _2026-08-19 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ On navigating stigmas and resistance. ## [Office hours with Tammy, August 2026](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/office-hours-with-tammy-august-2026) _2026-08-11 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ How do you know assess whether or not a conflict is resolvable? ## [On the emotional labor of conflict](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/on-the-emotional-labor-of-conflict) _2026-08-05 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ Fairness is the wrong measure when the heavy lifting all feels like yours. ## [3 ideas and a question: Talking isn't everything](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/3-ideas-and-a-question-talking-isnt) _2026-07-24 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ On doing something together before, during, or instead of talking. ## [The Waiting is the Hardest Part](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/07/the-waiting-is-hardest-part.html) _2026-07-18 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ ICE/fascist thugs continue to terrorize immigrant communities, committing random acts of murder along the way. For many conservatives, the reply to such a killing is to shrug their shoulders and claim the brown person shouldn't have been in the country illegally, as if murder is an acceptable punishment for a misdemeanor offense. On Monday, ICE killed a young man in Maine ; they shot him numerous… ## [How a guess becomes certainty](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/how-a-guess-becomes-certainty) _2026-07-17 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ The short trip from interpretation to conviction to conflict. ## [Reflection prompt #24](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/reflection-prompt-24) _2026-07-10 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ On dealing with regret and sorrow in the aftermath of a conflict ## [Road Bike Action and More](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/07/road-bike-action-and-more.html) _2026-07-07 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ Ever since my osteoporosis diagnosis more than four years ago, I've been a reluctant rider on the roads out of fear that a crash on pavement will lead to broken bones. Gravel roads are somewhat more forgiving, at least that's what I tell myself. I've recently dusted off my road bike and have been enjoying riding it again . In addition to enjoying road riding again, I'm also excited to see the… ## [Talk it out or type it out?](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/talk-it-out-or-type-it-out) _2026-07-03 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ How to match the channel to the goal when disagreement shows up. ## [3 ideas and a question: On delivering criticism](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/3-ideas-and-a-question-on-delivering) _2026-06-26 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ Ideas for delivering difficult feedback they'll actually consider. ## [Chovy's Blog: Agentic Coding (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/JsNGMD8CDQMX) _2026-06-26 · **Sponsored**_ Personal posts on agentic coding, moshcode CLI, and security findings. ## [Office hours with Tammy, June 2026](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/office-hours-with-tammy-june-2026) _2026-06-19 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ The evolution of a conflict resolver and a way to think about conflict resolution in the AI age. ## [Reflection prompt #23](https://tammylenski.substack.com/p/reflection-prompt-23) _2026-06-12 · Tammy Lenski · Disagree Better_ Assessing the risk of having or not having that difficult conversation. ## [Meet Jack, and Letting Go](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/06/meet-jack-and-letting-go.html) _2026-06-10 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ Meet Jack! Rachel sent me this photo of him to add to my blog. He's so sweet and precious. We took the 75-minute drive to visit Rachel and her family a week ago. Tammy was in her happy place as she held Jack and rocked him. I love that for her. Cliff was at daycare, so we missed seeing him, but we video chatted with him a couple of nights ago. Hearing him say "Hi Gampa" makes my entire body smile.… ## [Welcome to the World, Jack!](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/05/welcome-to-world-jack.html) _2026-05-13 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ We received a text from Rachel yesterday morning saying, "Jack Martin was born on May 11 at 2:59 a.m., 6 lbs 13 oz. We are resting and doing great!" It was the text we were expecting, as she had begun experiencing contractions more than 24 hours earlier. We drove down to see them at the hospital in Rochester around noon. She and Drew were both tired, and it showed. It had been a long 36-hour… ## [Bring on Spring!](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/04/bring-on-spring.html) _2026-04-20 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ I've been in a funk. While I'm managing to get to the gym most mornings for about an hour, walk Oscar and Rudy 20+ miles (32 km) per week, and get in a few rides (mostly on my indoor trainer this time of year), I'm struggling with motivation. I can admit to my fair share of doomscrolling. I think back to when I was employed and living a more structured life where every hour of my day was spoken… ## [Seeking Power](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/03/seeking-power.html) _2026-03-27 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ In my last blog post, I talked about aging in relation to my physical performance on the bike and during my walks. Perhaps it's the Virgo in me—the meticulously organized side that tracks meaningless stuff, such as performance—but the numbers don't lie. The stats tell me I've been slowing down for many years, but a big part of my drop-off was due to my arthritic right knee. Now that I have my knee… ## ["Hi Gampa"](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/03/hi-gampa.html) _2026-03-20 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ I jynxed us in my last blog post when I spoke about our mild winter. A strong depression came through Saturday night and into Sunday morning, bringing with it about 15" (38 cm) of snow, single-digit temps, and winds gusting in excess of 40 mph (65 kph). It's pretty out there, I'll say that! But a warmup is on the way! My WeatherBug app is forecasting 68°F (20 °C) for Saturday, just two days from… ## ["Exciting Times!"](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/03/exciting-times.html) _2026-03-08 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ Tammy had surgery on her foot last week to remove bone spurs and bone chips. Her doctor said it was a much-needed surgery for her. Over the past two years, especially, she hasn't been able to work out or walk very far the way she used to (because of pain), so we're hopeful this will give her that ability again. She was supposed to have the surgery last fall, but had to put it off for six months… ## [Resist!](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/02/resist.html) _2026-02-23 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ I've watched my share of Olympic coverage from Milano Cortina, Italy, over the last two-plus weeks. I mostly enjoy watching curling, but also figure skating, snowboarding, and ski jumping. I love the winter Olympics. It's been a nice distraction from our dysfunctional country. I was in a curling league two years ago and became fascinated by the sport. There is so much strategy involved. I still… ## [Non-Custodial Crypto Gateway (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/Gm19LO9fOll4) _2026-02-23 · **Sponsored**_ Accept multi-chain crypto, automated fee handling, and trustless escrow with real-time settlement. ## [I've Had Enough](https://onekgguy.blogspot.com/2026/02/ive-had-enough.html) _2026-02-08 · Kevin Gilmore · Say What?_ I've had enough. Like many people, I've toyed with the thought of deleting my Facebook account. Earlier this week, in a spur-of-the-moment decision, I decided to toy no more and did it. More accurately, I stopped short of deleting it and deactivated it instead. Not deleting it gives me continued access to Messenger, where I can still connect with friends. Perhaps it was the algorithm I had…