Are You Fighting for Connection?

“Should I even keep fighting for my marriage?”, asks “G.” Oof, that word… “fighting.” I hear it often. But so many times, when someone says they are “fighting for” their marriage, they end up “fighting against” their spouse. The spouse who doesn’t see how to move forward. Which is rarely helpful for the process. But I watch person after person “suit up” to do battle, not even sure on what they are…