# saying goodbye (blogs) — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 1 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover saying goodbye. Page: Feed: --- ## [It takes 3 weeks to form a habit, but it’s probably not enough to kill old ones](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/27/it-takes-3-weeks-to-form-a-habit-but-its-probably-not-enough-to-kill-old-ones/) _2026-08-27 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ It’s 3as I’m writing this, and I know full well I should be sleeping now. I work in the mornings now, but suddenly, my body is still convinced I’m in Asia – it’s getting annoying. I’ve been waking up at 8 AM since I got here. Earlier even. Then suddenly, I started sleeping in the \[…\] ## [My ever-so-insignificant relationship with music](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/24/my-ever-so-insignificant-relationship-with-music/) _2026-08-25 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ I’m writing this entry while listening to my OPM rock playlist. I thought of writing about music because of an incident that happened last Saturday. While I was folding our clothes, I was listening to Tyla’s “She did it again.” My husband laughed and told me how I told him in the past (before we \[…\] ## [My parents were never OFWs](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/23/my-parents-were-never-ofws/) _2026-08-23 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ If there’s one misconception in life that I had problem unbelieving is this – OFWs are rich. Why you may ask? I didn’t grow up rich. For the most part of my childhood, my mom and dad had to rent a house and lived paycheck to paycheck. It wasn’t until my teenage years where we \[…\] ## [Learning how to make cookies made me avoid them](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/22/learning-how-to-make-cookies-made-me-avoid-them/) _2026-08-23 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ Circa 2018 – I think… One of my teammates (hello, ate Dana) brought a bag of chewy cookies the size of my palm with rock salt on top of it. We ate it at 9 pm starting our shift with sugar rush as we go through the night shift, doing our best to work well, \[…\] ## [I don’t like winter](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/21/i-dont-like-winter/) _2026-08-21 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ It’s only been two weeks, but I’ve officially decided that I don’t like winter. I’ve always thought there’s something magical about the cold weather. I’ve always wanted to see snow. I still do. But now, surviving in the conurbano winter- it’s not even snowing – I’m starting to feel a certain type of fatigue that \[…\] ## [When the end of this life comes](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/19/when-the-end-of-this-life-comes/) _2026-08-19 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ I’ve been watching crime drama so much, they made me anxious about my own mortality. I don’t know when it’s going to come but it will, and when it does there’s nothing I can do. If there’s one thing I’ve learned about combating anxiety, it’s this, be grateful. List down everything that’s going well and \[…\] ## [My First Week in Argentina](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/17/my-first-week-in-argentina/) _2026-08-18 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ Long time no read, I should say. It has been a week since I wrote I’m saying goodbye to my hometown, it has also been more than a week since I moved to my new home, in a town in the province of Buenos Aires. It has been cold since. While most other countries are enjoying their summer \[…\] ## [I’m saying goodbye to my hometown](https://lazynessy.site/2026/08/03/im-saying-goodbye-to-my-hometown/) _2026-08-03 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ For 3 decades, the busy city of Calamba has been my home. Now that I m bound to move the other side of the world, I can t help but feel emotional that I no longer be here with my family and friends. But instead of thinking of this as abandoning my home, I d like to think \[ \] ## [Cavinti is nice, my friends are nicer](https://lazynessy.site/2026/07/20/cavinti-is-nice-my-friends-are-nicer/) _2026-07-20 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ It was a great weekend. We were supposed to go to another island, but a lot of rejected RSVP came in and so we decided to change the plan to a quick getaway in our own province. It was the best 11 hours of sleep I had. My friends kept telling me I should spend \[ \] ## [About Us But Not About Us – It should’ve ended at 30 mins](https://lazynessy.site/2026/07/10/about-us-but-not-about-us-it-shouldve-ended-at-30-mins/) _2026-07-10 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ What an experience, let me start with that. My good friend, Em, passively convinced me to go back to watching Tagalog films again. Tagalog is my native language, and it s challenging for me to listen to dialogues in Tagalog because I notice the little things, and it destroys the experience for me. Especially for drama \[ \] ## [Daily plans, scheduled by AI (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/HQvdAlfmZDu6) _2026-07-10 · **Sponsored**_ AI-made daily plans that schedule tasks and protect focus time. ## [Good luck drying those tears](https://lazynessy.site/2026/07/08/good-luck-drying-those-tears/) _2026-07-08 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ Telling yourself it s okay while sobbing is such a hard task, but achievable nonetheless. Convincing yourself it s not as big as you think it is, is kind of tricky when you re brain already hopped in and out of that rabbit hole 20 times during your 15-minutes crying session. Crazy as it is, you know in \[ \] ## [The World Cup changed my view of Sports](https://lazynessy.site/2026/07/05/the-world-cup-changed-my-view-of-sports/) _2026-07-05 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ For three days now, I have been consuming non-stop football content. It all started two weeks ago, when my husband told me we should watch Argentina s game in the World Cup. Curious, I said Of course. It was really interesting. I didn t think I would find fun in watching grown men stealing balls using their \[ \] ## [Unrequited Crushes are Stupidly Necessary](https://lazynessy.site/2026/06/28/unrequited-crushes-are-stupidly-necessary/) _2026-06-28 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ As a lover girl through and through, I can t help but look back at all the stupid stuff I did whenever I had a crush on someone. At a young age, I ve always just thought of crushes as someone you like and never meant to have. Probably the reason why I didn t really try, in \[ \] ## [My Thoughts on War is Not Over When It’s Over](https://lazynessy.site/2026/06/27/my-thoughts-on-war-is-not-over-when-its-over/) _2026-06-27 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ After 4 weeks, I finally finished my first ever book for 2026. While my relationship with the book started pre-pandemic, I m happy the 7-year wait is over, and I finally to read its totality. The book has opened my eyes to so many things as a woman, as a feminist, and most of all, as \[ \] ## [Manon is missed](https://lazynessy.site/2026/06/25/manon-is-missed/) _2026-06-25 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ Since Manon s hiatus weeks ago, I found myself crawling through the skin of a 17-year-old fan girl who just lost her favourite girl group member. There is a certain kind of grief attributed to losing a member of a band or a group you like. It s like you know it does not deeply affect anything \[ \] ## [I missed Argentina so we ate Argentine food](https://lazynessy.site/2026/06/24/i-missed-argentina-so-we-ate-argentine-food/) _2026-06-24 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ Yesterday, I went to Makati to meet a friend and eat Argentinian food. I also wanted to introduce my dear friend to Argentine cuisine. Apparently, there aren t a lot of Argentinian restaurants in Makati, luckily, there s Chingolo. First of all, this is not the type of restaurant we d go to on a normal basis, but \[ \] ## [Pettiness exists for peace](https://lazynessy.site/2026/06/22/pettiness-exists-for-peace/) _2026-06-22 · Nessy · Lazy Nessy's Gala Archives_ I used to think being mature, and being a grown up means you accept things the way they are by being understanding. No one told me being a grown up actually meant accepting how petty you are so it s easy for you to drop someone from your contact list because they didn t pronounce your name \[ \]