My Experience of realizing that I am Ace-Aro, and the Grief that comes after that

My experience as an ace-aro is quite unique and it is my personal experience of discovering. It is not a clear-cut experience just to fit into the box of 'ace-aro', but here I am existing. I won't go into much of personal details of course, but long story short I tried dating both man and a woman, as a result I just could not imagine myself actually pursuing the relationship further. Vaguely…