Surgery, Retainers, Self Advocacy, and a Piercers Privilige

As some of you may know, I recently got top surgery! This has been a process 3 years in the making, and something I’ve been dreaming about for far longer than that. I opted for one of the most popular forms of top surgery- double incision without nipple grafts. This is one of the largest and most invasive surgeries I’ve had done, if not the most invasive. It was also the first time I needed to…