Adult children and me

Navigating adult children can be quite something. They will always be your children, you will view them, experience them, in a way that no one else ever will. You hear the unsaid, you feel their pain. Stay quiet, say it, don't say the thing but perhaps he needs you to say the thing. Is the thing being said going to help this - probably not, but you care - is it control, perhaps, is it enablement,…