Making a choice…but not quite

My partner calls me Pendulkar, a portmanteau of pendulum (always swinging) and Tendulkar, the famous Indian cricketer. I second guess myself a lot, or vacillate about making a decision or do a did-I-choose-wrong-whinefest after having made a choice. Jeff Bezos once said, decisions are like doors. There are two-way doors, doors you can walk through and then come back out of. Or one-way doors, once…