Doing the "right" thing

Over the course of this decade, when faced with a choice I've often wondered which option is the "right" one for me. I've been learning that I usually think this way as an attempt to soothe my anxiety about the potential negative outcomes of my decision. In this mindset, the "right" choice is the one that has the least downsides. Even when I'm trying to maximise an outcome, focusing on what I…