# men women (audio feeds) — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 3 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover men women. Page: Feed: --- ## Episode 87--X & Y On The Fly--The Evolution Of Dating Advice _2026-12-26 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Dating and relationship advice has gone through significant changes over the last 20 years. Some of it has been good and necessary evolution, some of it downright detrimental and counter-productive. As X & Y Communications marks its 20th anniversary, we look back on the good, the bad and the ugly out there over the years since we opened our doors. First of all, what was up with men having an… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode87_evolution_of_dating_advice.mp3) ## [Ugly Energy: How You Treat Others Around You Directly Impacts Your Dating Opportunities](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/ugly-energy-how-you-treat-others) _2026-08-21 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ The energy you put out into the universe comes right back to you ## [The Dating Skill No One Talks About: Learning How to Take Feedback](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/the-dating-skill-no-one-talks-about) _2026-08-17 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ And how to deliver it effectively [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/211492999/a93e1dc66d92a800c5edb406b17e0ffe.mp3) ## [Bumble Just Admitted What Women Have Been Trying to Tell Us](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/bumble-just-admitted-what-women-have) _2026-08-14 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ Did flipping gender roles actually help or hurt dating? ## [How to Be Perceived as High Value](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/how-to-be-perceived-as-high-value) _2026-08-11 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ This one applies to both men and women who are done chasing. ## [There Isn’t a Romance Recession. There’s a Confidence Recession.](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/there-isnt-a-romance-recession-theres) _2026-08-06 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ So excited to share my segment from ABC7 with you. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/210066951/79bc388483dab3ec60dbb0b97ebdb293.mp3) ## [You're Speaking Different Dating Languages](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/youre-speaking-different-dating-languages) _2026-08-04 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ Why men and women are often not connecting on first dates and how to fix it ## [Let's Talk About Sex with Eszter Tölgyesi](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/lets-talk-about-sex-with-ezster-tolgyesi) _2026-08-03 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ I asked her all of the questions you have been dying to ask... [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/209560839/02dbbe34e824ca4c9d73f488af4d7f74.mp3) ## [You’re Shooting Yourself in the Foot with Your Online Behavior](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/youre-shooting-yourself-in-the-foot) _2026-07-29 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ Practical tips to stop sabotaging yourself online. ## Episode 90--X & Y On The Fly--Our Most Authentic Self _2026-07-24 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ In this episode Emily and I acknowledge that authenticity rules, especially if we expect to build meaningful, connected relationships...especially with MOTOS. And indeed, nobody in Western culture wants to come off as fake to anyone, But the tricky question has always been about how to know when you're being your true self. What context is that most likely to occur in...and with whom especially?… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode89_we_never_outgrow_flirting.mp3) ## [From any door to your door (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/8D11PsJvVTii) _2026-07-24 · **Sponsored**_ Book rides, errands, deliveries, groceries and home help in one app ## [What Does It Take to Be a High-Value Man?](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/what-does-it-take-to-be-a-high-value) _2026-07-21 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ What we have gotten wrong about being a "provider"... ## [Are Long-Distance Relationships Worth It? Here’s What Most People Get Wrong.](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/are-long-distance-relationships-worth) _2026-07-20 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ One of the questions I get asked all the time is whether long-distance relationships are actually worth pursuing. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/207718966/e3a2a8d2cc854641b1303eaf6fc74bff.mp3) ## [What High-Achieving Men Actually Look for in a Wife](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/what-high-achieving-men-actually) _2026-07-16 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ Over the past decade, I’ve interviewed thousands of successful men. And one pattern has come up over and over again. It’s the very thing I see keeping ambitious women stuck in dating. ## [Can a Relationship Be Saved? What Most Couples Get Wrong About Therapy](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/can-a-relationship-be-saved-what) _2026-07-13 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ One of the questions I get asked all the time is, “Can this relationship still be saved?” [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/206924048/a7e1ea97d852b8f31e75491aa2805cdb.mp3) ## [The Truth About “Provider Men”: Why the Math Isn't Mathing](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/the-truth-about-provider-men-why) _2026-07-06 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ What if the reason you’re still single isn’t because there aren’t enough good men—but because the dating pool you’ve created has become impossibly small? ## [If You’re Going to Go on the Date, Give It 100%](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/if-youre-going-to-go-on-the-date) _2026-06-30 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ One of the biggest mistakes I see singles make is deciding that someone isn’t right for them before they’ve even met... ## [High Frequency Happy Hour - Summer Edition!](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/high-frequency-happy-hour-summer) _2026-06-25 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ A singles event like no other. Designed for people who are looking to build a real connection organically. ## [Why You Keep Dating the Same Person in Different Bodies](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/why-you-keep-dating-the-same-person) _2026-06-24 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ One of the most frustrating experiences in dating is looking back at your history and realizing you’ve dated the same person over and over again. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203275251/f332ecc0ed4656b3e79175294b988270.mp3) ## [The Dating Challenges of High-Achieving Women](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/the-dating-challenges-of-high-achieving) _2026-06-17 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ If you have an MBA, run a company, are a partner at your firm, or have spent years building an impressive career, this article is for you. ## [Bringing Matchmaking to the Masses is Finally Here: Meet Snug Dating](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/bringing-matchmaking-to-the-masses) _2026-06-16 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ I've been helping develop an app that brings what I do to more people with the help of AI ## [Watch Chovy Code Live (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/KcwdgAOlMVht) _2026-06-16 · **Sponsored**_ Join live coding streams with real-time collaborative screen sharing, open source and free. ## [What I Wish I Knew Before Starting IVF](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/what-i-wish-i-knew-before-starting) _2026-06-15 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ And the mistakes I made along the way [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/202010500/9fb44d515fea42726bce80fe0b5496d8.mp3) ## [How I Got My Husband to See Me as Marriage Material](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/how-i-got-my-husband-to-see-me-as) _2026-06-11 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ Changing my habits, lifestyle, and dating from a place of values wasn't enough... ## [Dating Anxiety Is Real—But It Doesn’t Have to Run the Show](https://annamorgenstern.substack.com/p/dating-anxiety-is-realbut-it-doesnt) _2026-06-01 · Anna Morgenstern · Dating Rehab with Anna Morgenstern_ A quick clip from the latest podcast episode with Rebecca Marcus [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/200018248/6679741ffa6c41a2937c5f9ba3a93ea0.mp3) ## Episode 89--X & Y On The Fly--You Never Outgrow Flirting _2026-05-15 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Yes, we're talking about flirting...and flirting should indeed be fun. If it's work, drudgery, or even creepy and weird then we're not doing it right. Since women love fun, that means they also love to flirt. So what IS flirting really, anyway? And given the stereotype that sex slows down (or stops) after marriage, is it really flirting that stopped first? How is it that couples who actually like… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode89_we_never_outgrow_flirting.mp3) ## Episode 88--X & Y On The Fly--The Seasons Of Marriage (20 Years In!) _2026-03-06 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Since our last episode, Emily and I celebrated 20 years together. Over the course of two decades, we've realized there are seasons to a marriage. Now obviously, most couples would hope for an endless springtime rather than the winter of their discontent, but what we're talking about here isn't quite so literal. It's not just that things change both in the marriage and around you. That's inevitable… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode88_the_seasons_of_marriage.mp3) ## [Bad Bunny and the world he can't save, with Rosalynde Welch](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/bad-bunny-and-the-world-he-cant-save) _2026-02-24 · Diana Brown · The Soloists_ Bad Bunny's halftime show celebrated marriage, kids, and intergenerational community, yet Puerto Rico's birth rates are among the lowest in the world. What does it take to save the worlds we love? [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/188939960/57db5c5ce24b2acfd22b9f45cb7dce09.mp3) ## [The Dignity of Dependence - with Leah Libresco Sargeant](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/the-dignity-of-dependence-with-leah) _2025-12-21 · Diana Brown · The Soloists_ A new book explores how we stumble in love by believing the the myth of our own independence. This "anthropological falsehood" applies to men as much as to women. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/182134712/cead8813025df3545d9a53993cb40359.mp3) ## [Can sex and spirituality get along? - with Premananda Villasa](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/can-sex-and-spirituality-get-along) _2025-12-11 · Diana Brown · The Soloists_ Do sex and God belong in the same conversation, and why? We talk to Bhakti yoga instructor Premananda Villasa about Dharmic wisdom of sex, dharma, and the four life stages. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/181132157/f58e97270c189a4d3ee1931a27b5b59c.mp3) ## [The Hero's Journey vs. the Grunt Work -- with humanitarians Abe Collier & Melissa Robel](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/the-heros-journey-vs-the-grunt-work) _2025-11-28 · Diana Brown · The Soloists_ In advance of Giving Tuesday, we talk to two founders of humanitarian organizations, and how they balance the courage to pursue a wild calling with the humility to do the grunt work. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/180171761/805252cfe1b0346ed2671e041a373f71.mp3) ## [52 Ways to Go from Stranger to Friend - with David Boice](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/52-ways-to-go-from-stranger-to-friend) _2025-11-13 · Diana Brown · The Soloists_ We talk to Youtuber David Boice about his experiment visiting Churches across America, and what he's learned about how to successfully walk people from being a stranger to an insider. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/178788248/ea9e4d7de4aba9c47c070db4d13cf178.mp3) ## [Screen Share With Real Control (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/HOuxpfsAjbxO) _2025-11-13 · **Sponsored**_ Collaborative screen sharing with simultaneous remote control — open source, like Screenhero. ## Episode 86--X & Y On The Fly--What If You're Disappointed? _2025-10-17 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Well, here's the first thing you can figure out, just from the title: Emily and I are obviously not disappointed enough in each other to avoid such a touchy topic. BUT...maybe that's a clue why this relational disappointment thing never gets talked about much. So what are we actually covering here? I mean, isn't it unrealistic to get into a relationship thinking everything is always going to be… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode86_what_if_youre_disappointed.mp3) ## [More Treasures than One - with Emily Snyder](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/more-treasures-than-one-with-emily) _2025-10-02 · The Soloists · The Soloists_ We talk with Emily Snyder about life's detours, the awkwardness of not meeting cultural milestones, and the discovery that there are multiple paths towards fulfillment. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/174966723/b2e4a34b94522682cd28135c2d78f2e0.mp3) ## [No One Wants Community - with Michael Perrone](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/no-one-wants-community-with-michael) _2025-09-23 · The Soloists · The Soloists_ Many say they want community but won't show up to build it. So do they really want it? We talk to Michael Perrone on why community requires something akin to conversion, where our desires are changed. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/174273023/192961bea6ae85aeaaa1a943d5ab3dc9.mp3) ## [A Reality Dating Show for Virgins - with Rebbie Brassfield](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/a-reality-dating-show-for-virgins) _2025-09-15 · The Soloists · The Soloists_ Hulu's dating show for virgins, "Are you my first?" is like the world's worst singles ward. Somehow, we loved it. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/173605655/a933c83412a46ad32b7dc01652f7636b.mp3) ## [Authority vs. Empathy in Leadership - with YSA Bishops](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/authority-vs-empathy) _2025-09-07 · The Soloists · The Soloists_ We talk to leaders of single adult congregations about the tensions between care and discipline as they shepherd young adults through seasons of loneliness, doubt, and repentance. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/173037414/e7b40c4383da2e6b53b4080d05d1727f.mp3) ## [The Body is not a Burden - With Annie Kate Peterson](https://thesoloists.substack.com/p/the-body-is-not-a-burden-with-annie) _2025-08-31 · The Soloists · The Soloists_ Bodies are inherently chaotic—they change without our permission, they age, they jiggle and shift and refuse to stay put. Like life itself, our bodies deserve gentleness, ease, and even forgiveness. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/172392105/1d37a0bc87d57bf9cb501ce2dc5228ad.mp3) ## Episode 85--X & Y On The Fly--Dating, Relating And Pets _2025-08-08 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Here comes a long-overdue conversation on how pets affect relationships between men and women. As you might have already imagined, this went in probably every direction you could think of and then some...starting with Emily's thoughts on how men who have cats are p\*ssies. Yeah, well...is that always the case? Isn't there such thing as a masculine pet cat? Should men be 'dog people' instead if they… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode85_dating_relating_and_pets.mp3) ## Episode 84--X & Y On The Fly--Dealing With Your Ex (Or Theirs) _2025-05-30 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Maybe Emily and I waited almost 20 years to cover this subject because it's a touchy one that hits just a little too close to home for both of us. But hey, it's an important one. How do you deal with your ex...especially if you're now in a new relationship? Check it out, there are at least three categories of ex that could still theoretically be haunting your life after a breakup or divorce. And… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode84_dealing_with_exes.mp3) ## Episode 83--X & Y On The Fly--What If We Have Sex Too Soon? _2025-03-21 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Nowadays we live in a culture that extols selfhood and immediate gratification. As marriage becomes less revered as an institution, lots of people are asking if there's really any reason to hold off from having sex extremely early in the relationship...even on the same day they meet. I mean, if that's what both of you want, why not? But as we all know, life has a way of throwing complications at… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode83.mp3) ## Episode 82--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relating: The Next 25 Years _2025-01-10 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Last week we covered how dating and relating between men and women has evolved over the past quarter century. But what about the next 25 years...and indeed the rest of this century coming up? What's going on with gender politics? Are people finally sick of it? Will we be able to define "man" and "woman" again? Is Masculinity back? Will women start prioritizing motherhood over Hofstedian societal… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode82.mp3) ## Episode 81--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relating: The Last 25 Years _2025-01-03 · scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay) · X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships_ Exactly 25 years and one week ago, everyone's attention was on whether or not the dreaded Y2K bug was going to crash the world's computer systems and make planes fall out of the sky. And even as we partied like it was 1999, nobody's nose was buried in their smartphone because those hadn't come out yet. People weren't even texting each other. After all, if on the off chance you had texting on your… [Listen](https://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode81.mp3)