Help Me Hera: My late-in-life queer awakening is stressing me out

How do I find my way to pride? Want Hera’s help? Email your problem to helpme@thespinoff.co.nz or fill out this form . Dear Hera, After being asleep for decades, I find myself inside the middle-aged crisis that is my gay awakening. It’s not cathartic or joyous, and mostly I am afraid. For years now I’ve experienced the slow creeping horror, I think not of my queerness, but of discovering that I am…