# look away (blogs) — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 3 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover look away. Page: Feed: --- ## [I didn’t expect to buy the first mother-of-the-bride outfit I tried](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/i-didnt-expect-to-buy-the-first-mother) _2026-08-25 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ If you’re a soon-to-be mother-of-the-bride or groom, keep reading for my tips and a list of 50 places to shop ## [Please Don't Look Away: Punk Hostage Press Co-Founder Speaks up About Rape Culture](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/please-dont-look-away-punk-hostage) _2026-08-16 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ An interview with A.Razor about sexual violence and direct action within the early LA punk scene. ## [I've sampled clothes on dozens of women. Standardised sizing isn't a pipe dream. It's not possible](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/ive-sampled-clothes-on-dozens-of) _2026-08-10 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ Trying on more than 50 pairs of jeans this winter only reinforced this belief for me ## [The Imaginal Commons:](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/the-imaginal-commons) _2026-08-05 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ The River of Belonging ## [The Sitch with Mitch](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/the-sitch-with-mitch) _2026-08-03 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ Play or Get Off the Field ## [Please Don't Look Away: A Rock n Roll Rape](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/please-dont-look-away-a-rock-n-roll) _2026-07-31 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ The tragic story of one of the fairy godmothers of the punk scene. What Jackie Fuchs' rape says about patriarchy in rock 'n' roll and why silence and denial are destroying good sex for everyone. ## [This is your sign: it’s never too late to change careers](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/this-is-your-sign-its-never-too-late) _2026-07-30 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ The July 2026 round-up is here for your browsing pleasure ## [Everything I wore for summer in Canada](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/everything-i-wore-for-summer-in-canada) _2026-07-20 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ (and a full evaluation of what worked and what didn’t) ## [City of Drugstore Roses](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/city-of-drugstore-roses) _2026-07-19 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ Portland, Oregon, a city lost in time and the romanticism of leaving and returning after a long goodbye. ## [Property as Rupture](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/property-as-rupture) _2026-07-13 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ The Denial of Belonging ## [Independent podcasts, all self-hosted (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/PJMcQsqPdI3l) _2026-07-13 · **Sponsored**_ Browse 21,607 shows from 13,404 domains — listen in the browser and follow favourites. ## [What I’ve packed for summer in Canada](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/what-ive-packed-for-summer-in-canada) _2026-07-06 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ Minimalist packers should look away now ## [Rock N Roll Is Dead](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/rock-n-roll-is-dead) _2026-07-04 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ Happy 4th of July, Rock n Roll is Dead. ## [I'm as surprised as you are that I am on board with this trend](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/im-as-surprised-as-you-are-that-i) _2026-06-29 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ The June 2026 round-up is here for your browsing pleasure ## [I'll Be Your "Push a Button Any Time," Lover](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/ill-be-your-push-a-button-any-time) _2026-06-28 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ An ode to anyone who has ever fallen in love with someone they shouldn't have. ## [Who Owns the Middle](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/who-owns-the-middle-c8d) _2026-06-24 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ The masters of AI are framing their project as an indispensable utility that they will propagate, administer, and for which they will charge rent. ## [I have absolutely no business having a knitwear collection like this](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/i-have-absolutely-no-business-having) _2026-06-22 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ This is how I justify it and what I look for when buying ## [Intro to I Can Only Give You Everything](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/intro-to-i-can-only-give-you-everything) _2026-06-20 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ How a headbanger, a I-35 masturbator and a former prom queen led me to healing from PTSD and writing my Auto-Fiction Punk Rock Addiction Recovery Memoir ## [Why my birthday post went viral](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/why-my-birthday-post-went-viral) _2026-06-08 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ I'm 59. Age your way. ## [The Second Coming of Borderland Delia: Part II of II](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-second-coming-of-borderland-delia-eff) _2026-06-06 · I Can Only Give You Everything_ How Borderland Delia made her first movie with no actors, no money and a stolen video camera. ## [The Second Coming of Borderland Delia-Ann: Part I of II](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-second-coming-of-borderland-delia) _2026-05-30 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ I'm going to be the next John Water's. I've got a camera, half a bottle of Ritalin and some ambition. ## [Hire AI-Powered Freelancers Fast (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/q5jwLguW83ap) _2026-05-30 · **Sponsored**_ Browse and hire skilled professionals using AI tools — free to post, free to apply. ## [Heading to Europe this summer?](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/heading-to-europe-this-summer) _2026-05-29 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ The May 2026 round-up is here for your browsing pleasure ## [Death of a Screenwriter](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/death-of-a-screenwriter) _2026-05-23 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ I thought I moved to Austin, Texas to become a big time director, instead I hit bottom in alcohol/sex addiction and wrote a fucked up memoir. ## [Fashion trends: am I part of the problem?](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/fashion-trends-am-i-part-of-the-problem) _2026-05-19 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ I've already embraced five you'll be seeing a lot of this winter ## [The Middle III: Deep Intelligence & the Weirding of Time](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/the-middle-iii-deep-intelligence) _2026-05-18 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ The Middle comes with a weirding of time. ## [Please Don't Look Away](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/please-dont-look-away) _2026-05-16 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ The rock n roll man with the candy is my daddy. An essay about family secrets, the shadow side of the punk scene and life after sex addiction/trauma. ## [Punk Rock Girl](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/punk-rock-girl) _2026-05-10 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ I'll be a punk rock girl until I die. ## [The Middle II: Ground](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/the-middle-ii-ground) _2026-05-09 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ Hearts close in the small space of self-cherishing, self-indulgence, self-preservation, all the ways we become attached to our separate thoughts. ## [The Middle](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/the-middle) _2026-05-04 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ This is the first of several posts on the Middle. ## [I Wanna Be Inside Of All That](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/i-wanna-be-inside-of-all-that) _2026-05-02 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ A love poem, taken from the vault of my Frankenstein heart. ## [The Devil Wears Prada 2. That's all.](https://stylingyou.substack.com/p/the-devil-wears-prada-2-thats-all) _2026-04-30 · Nikki Parkinson · Styling You_ The April 2026 round-up is here for your browsing pleasure ## [One OS for your AI workforce (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/FaHPHvPBdbBn) _2026-04-30 · **Sponsored**_ Build, direct, and supervise an AI workforce from a single operating workspace. ## [Don't Fear the Reaper](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/dont-fear-the-reaper) _2026-04-18 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ An exploration into the hidden meaning behind the Snake, the Tree of Good and Evil, and Adam and Eve. ## [Justice II](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/justice-ii) _2026-04-15 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ Vulnerability & Safety ## [Justice I](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/justice-i) _2026-04-07 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ The following is excerpted from Just This! ## [Don't Look Away IV: The Awakened Feminine](https://garyspontaneouspresencenet.substack.com/p/dont-look-away-iv-the-awakened-feminine) _2026-03-25 · Gary Horvitz · Just Passing Through_ You, darkness, of whom I am born– I love you more than the flame that limits the world to the circle it illuminates and excludes all the rest. But the dark embraces everything: shapes and shadows, creatures and me, people, nations–just as they are. It lets me imagine a great presence stirring beside me. I believe in the night. ## [The UPS Worker at the Gates of Death](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-ups-worker-at-the-gates-of-death) _2026-03-14 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ A mini-story about how heartbreak, drug overdose and a angel disguised as a funeral worker can turn a bus ride into a religious experience. ## [The Biggest Sex Organ is Communication](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-biggest-sex-organ-is-communication) _2026-02-28 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ A personal essay about how I was able to restore my sex life after addiction. ## [The Path of the Accidental Mystic](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-path-of-the-accidental-mystic) _2026-02-14 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ "Science can cure sickness, but what can cure my soul?" ## [The Last Time](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-last-time) _2026-01-31 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ In the hotel room of a dead rock star Border Land Delia makes love for the last time. A short story that explores the difference between sex as devotion vs sex as loveless compulsion. ## [An Apocalyptic Saint In Training](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/an-apocalyptic-saint-in-training) _2026-01-17 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ An essay on the holy path of drug addiction and why I think Jesus' Son is one of the best books ever written. Plus never before published commentary on the creation of Jesus' Son. ## [The Circle](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/the-circle) _2026-01-10 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ "At Beer Land, swinging and bobbing in that circle of smiling, shouting bodies, I thought this time it would be different. That all along it was the drugs and alcohol that had fucked up the scene. " ## [8 Years Ago I Met the Two-Faced God of Death and Time](https://borderlandelia.substack.com/p/janus-aint-got-nothing-on-me) _2026-01-01 · I Can Only Give You Everything · I Can Only Give You Everything_ 8 years ago I met the double faced God of time and began a journey through the labyrinth of my own tortured mind to find myself lying under twenty-years of addictions and delusions.