kinda a rant on getting misgendered

tldr: rant about how my friends kinda piss me off but is kinda my fault but i think they should be trying harder so for context im mtf trans but ive only come out as non-binary to my friends cuz im still not sure its been 5 months and i can count on 2 hands the amount of times ive heard people use they/them for me. i havent really corrected anyone because i dont really want to spend a bunch of…