loving like tomorrow is a given

my third blog /ᐠ｡ꞈ｡ᐟ\ ~~ a few days ago i stumbled upon an article on substack 1 (go take a read, it's a very well worded article!!) and i couldn't help but ponder on it for a while. why do people seem to love you in the future, but not in present tense? stuff like " when i'm a better person ", " we'll go at a later time ", " i look forward to doing this with you "— i've heard way too often. can't…