”but the truth is, there’s no magical writing trick that will end fandom misogyny” DING DING DING! You were so spot on with that response 👏 And you’re so right about the term boymom! It’s a subtly misogynistic term i’ve gotten desensitized to over the years like pickme and karen, but when i was first seeing the term boymom used it was always to viciously put down women 😬

glad you liked my response! and yeah, i get being desensitized, i just find it so depressing that all of these terms that are ostensibly meant to critique misogyny and racism (and some of which, karen especially, i do genuinely believe were created with good intentions and initially did serve as effective critique of the phenomenons they described) have become yet another cudgel that people use to…