Reframing our advice

Most of your advice misses the core. "Stop being envious" or "Get rid of your resentment about that". You could do with a more powerful reframe. For two main reasons, 1) the person you are speaking to makes his/her own decisions and acts on them 2) he/she trust the words in their heads more than the words spoken at them. A better reframe could be: "the best way to guarantee a life of misery would…