# infidelity — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 4 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover infidelity. Page: Feed: --- ## [Look Out, Everybody!](https://twoman.substack.com/p/look-out-everybody) _2026-08-18 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ This is one ex-mistress who is NOT leaving the internet. ## [What Does My Husband's Porn Type Say About Me? Healing the Body-Image Wound of Betrayal](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/what-does-my-husbands-porn-type-say-about-me/) _2026-08-17 · Normalize therapy._ For the betrayed partner who saw exactly what kind of porn their husband was watching, and hasn't felt at home in their own body since. Caleb and Verlynda explain why his porn type reflects conditioning rather than a verdict on you, what to do with the impossible comparison, and how to heal the body-image wound of betrayal trauma without carrying his recovery.… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/his-porn-type-is-not-a-verdict-on-you-NT315-3.mp3) ## [Meeting the Needs Porn Was Meeting: How to Rebuild Real Connection in Recovery](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/meeting-the-needs-porn-was-meeting/) _2026-08-17 · Normalize therapy._ If you know why you watch porn but your needs still feel unmet, this episode is the "now what." Caleb and Verlynda walk through how to actually meet the connection, comfort, and validation needs porn was faking, with a concrete roadmap for rebuilding real relationships over time. For the person who's tired of white-knuckling recovery and wants the long game that lasts.… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/you-figured-out-why-you-use-porn-now-what-NT315-2.mp3) ## [Why Does Porn Escalate? Tolerance, Arousal Templates, and the Way Back Down](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/why-does-porn-escalate/) _2026-08-10 · Normalize therapy._ If your porn tastes have intensified over time, even into content that disturbs you, this episode explains the mechanism behind the drift: tolerance, novelty, and your arousal template. Certified sex addiction therapist Caleb Simonyi-Gindele unpacks why the gap between what you watch and what you'd want in real life is so common, why the shame compounds, and how the drift can be reversed at the… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/the-porn-escalation-ladder-NT315-1.mp3) ## [Intrusive Images During Sex After Betrayal: How to Stay Present Instead of Powering Through](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/intrusive-images-during-intimacy-after-betrayal/) _2026-08-06 · Normalize therapy._ If trauma images interrupt intimacy since the betrayal, this episode is for you. Verlynda explains why the freeze, lost arousal, and dissociation are your body's protection, and walks through five somatic pacing tools for staying present on your own timeline, plus a direct word for the partner who betrayed. Support from a betrayal trauma specialist:… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/intrusive-images-during-intimacy-NT314-4.mp3) ## [A Relapse Is Not a Reset: Why Counting Days Sets You Up to Binge](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/why-counting-days-sets-you-up-to-binge/) _2026-08-03 · Normalize therapy._ If one slip keeps turning into a three-day binge, the problem may not be your willpower. It may be your day counter. This episode is for anyone in porn addiction recovery who has stared at the "reset to Day 0" button: we cover why a relapse cannot erase your brain's progress, the researched reason broken streaks trigger binges, and the three moves that turn a relapse into fuel for more resilient… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/why-your-brain-doesnt-reset-after-a-relapse-NT314-3.mp3) ## [What the World's Foremost Astrologer Has to Say about Affairs](https://twoman.substack.com/p/what-the-worlds-foremost-astrologer) _2026-07-28 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ "Betrayal ... is our chief instrument of maturation." ## [Surviving Infidelity When Your Partner Won't Do the Recovery Work](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/partner-wont-do-the-work-deciding-whether-to-stay/) _2026-07-27 · Normalize therapy._ You have waited one year, or three, or seven, and the person who broke your trust still isn't really doing the recovery work. This episode is a discernment framework for the betrayed partner: how to tell real recovery from performed recovery on a calendar, what the research says about kids and high-conflict homes, and how to build the power to choose when finances keep you stuck. Get support at… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/surviving-infidelity-when-your-partner-wont-change-NT314-2.mp3) ## [The Three Faces of the Other Man or Woman](https://twoman.substack.com/p/the-three-faces-of-the-other-man) _2026-07-26 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ Why are people excusing the one that should get the most bad press? ## [How to Stop Thinking About Porn: The White Bear Effect and Urge Surfing](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/how-to-stop-thinking-about-porn/) _2026-07-20 · Normalize therapy._ If trying not to think about porn has only made the urges louder, this episode is for you. Caleb, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, explains why willpower fails by design, what actually happens in your brain during the 27 minutes an average urge lasts, and the four-move urge surfing skill that works instead. By the end you'll know exactly what to do the next time a wave hits.… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/how-to-stop-thinking-about-porn-NT314-1.mp3) ## [Transcript-Driven Stock Discovery (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/EQYEr3qfgC7F) _2026-07-20 · **Sponsored**_ Ranked, evidence-backed watchlists from indexed executive transcripts for 1–2 quarter horizons ## [The Repair Most Couples Skip: How to Reconnect After a Fight](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/repair-after-a-fight-in-marriage/) _2026-07-16 · Normalize therapy._ If your fights technically end but the distance lingers for hours or days, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda unpack why repair, not the absence of conflict, is what actually keeps a marriage close, how to calm a flooded nervous system before you talk, and what a real apology sounds like versus the hollow "you're right, I'm sorry." Start here:… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/how-to-repair-after-a-fight-in-your-marriage-NT313-4.mp3) ## [Should I Stay or Leave After an Affair? Why You Don't Have to Decide Yet](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/deciding-whether-to-stay-after-infidelity/) _2026-07-13 · Normalize therapy._ If you just found out about an affair and everyone is asking you whether you'll stay or go, this episode is the permission you may not know you need. Caleb and Verlynda explain why a decision made in the first raw weeks is unreliable, what a structured pause actually looks like, and the full range of options that live between staying exactly as you were and ending it today. This is not a push to… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/should-i-stay-or-leave-after-infidelity-NT313-3.mp3) ## [Why Am I Attracted to Certain Porn? Reading the Wound Underneath](https://therapevo.com/podcasts/why-am-i-attracted-to-certain-porn/) _2026-07-09 · Normalize therapy._ If you have ever wondered why one specific kind of porn pulls you in when you scroll past everything else, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda unpack the idea of your arousal template, why porn so often becomes a way to medicate an old wound rather than a simple matter of sex drive, and why understanding the why does more than white-knuckling ever will. There is also a direct,… [Listen](https://media.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/content.blubrry.com/onlyyouforever/why-am-I-attracted-to-certain-porn-NT313-2.mp3) ## [Yappin' About Infidelity with Dr. Becky Whetstone](https://twoman.substack.com/p/yappin-about-infidelity-with-dr-becky) _2026-07-02 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ My first guest podcast episode! ## [I've Run the Largest Publication on Infidelity on Medium for 6+ Years](https://twoman.substack.com/p/ive-run-the-largest-publication-on) _2026-06-28 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ These are the reasons I've seen people cheat. ## [If You're Going to Stay Married, then Just Stay Married](https://twoman.substack.com/p/if-youre-going-to-stay-married-then) _2026-06-21 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ There's no free lunch. ## [Affairs and Blame](https://twoman.substack.com/p/affairs-and-blame) _2026-06-15 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ Man, do we LOVE that word. ## [The Best Infidelity Articles You're Not Reading](https://twoman.substack.com/p/the-best-infidelity-articles-youre) _2026-06-08 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ A collection of links. ## [The Right Way to Ask Why You Got Cheated On](https://twoman.substack.com/p/the-right-way-to-ask-why-you-got) _2026-05-14 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ It really, really matters. ## [All Three People Bear Responsibility in an Affair](https://twoman.substack.com/p/all-three-people-bear-responsibility) _2026-04-10 · The Thinking Other Woman · The Thinking Other Woman_ It's sort of like this three-headed statue. ## [Production-grade web engineering (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/YwQ3QnNBSFvR) _2026-04-10 · **Sponsored**_ Senior engineers who rebuild or launch scalable web products with enterprise rigor ## [Deepen Your Love: A New Couples Retreat](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/deepen-your-love-a-new-couples-retreat) _2026-02-15 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ Join me near Berlin in June 2026 ## [Initiation: Transitioning from One Phase of Your Life to the Next.](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/initiation-transitioning-from-one) _2025-11-26 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ Join my men's retreat near Berlin in spring 2026 ## [When Your Husband or Wife Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/husband-wife-doesn't-want-sex) _2025-11-06 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ When your husband, wife, partner doesn’t want sex anymore, it can leave you feeling confused, rejected, or alone — especially when they’re still loving in every other way. In this heartfelt episode, Nicola explores what really causes desire to fade and how to rebuild closeness without pressure, shame, or chasing. You’ll learn how to reconnect emotionally, restore trust, and find peace — whether… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c33fa00d-cec4-4d12-9ba4-4fd908925af6.mp3) ## [Parenting Advice for Couples: How to Stay Close Through Stress](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/Parenting-Advice-for-Couples) _2025-10-28 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Feeling distant from your partner while parenting? This episode offers real guidance to help you reconnect and work as a team—whether you’re raising toddlers, teens, or neurodivergent children. You’ll hear stories, practical tools, and the 4 key steps that help couples stay close through parenting stress. 🎁 Grab the Relationship Reconnect Toolkit https://training.nicolabeer.com/7-secrets-marriage… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a5982fac-9766-4237-b2e8-9b2cf4dc38bb.mp3) ## [Compulsive Lying in Relationships - Healing Trust With a Lying Husband or Wife](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/compulsive-lying-in-relationships) _2025-10-21 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Compulsive lying can destroy safety and trust in a marriage. In this episode, we look at why husbands and wives lie compulsively, the emotional roots behind dishonesty, and the steps needed to heal and rebuild trust. If you’re married to a compulsive liar—or struggling with this pattern yourself—this episode offers insights and hope. Get your free relationship and self-worth toolkits here… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/aa58d2df-34e9-4682-b3ce-5a026b1537a6.mp3) ## [Relationship Counseling Not Working : Signs to Protect You and Your Relationship](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/Relationship-Counseling-Not-Working) _2025-10-14 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ In this episode, Nicola Beer shares the clear signs that counseling isn’t helping, when couples therapy can actually be harmful—especially in abusive relationships—and how to protect your emotional safety. She explains how therapy can sometimes keep you stuck in old patterns, what to do if your therapist offers no practical actions or tools, how to recognize when it’s time to end therapy, and what… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b9f0ebe3-d17b-4c0d-95c9-5ab1d5d15719.mp3) ## [Healing After Sexting and Digital Cheating: Betrayal Recovery & Rebuilding Trust](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com//Healing-After-Sexting-Digital-Cheating) _2025-10-07 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Nicola Beer explores how digital behaviors—sexting, secret pornography use, subscription sites, or active dating profiles—can become powerful betrayals. Even when they seem “small,” the emotional impact can rival or exceed physical affairs. Learn how brain chemistry and digital platform design fuel compulsive habits, why stopping is so difficult even with good intentions, and the essential steps… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/40d750d0-0e1a-492c-9abe-b81ce6cfd1ec.mp3) ## [Introvert Extrovert Relationship Dynamics - Improve Communication and Stay Connected](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/relationship/Introvert-Extrovert-Relationship-Dynamics) _2025-09-30 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Is one of you the quiet, inward one—and the other thrives on connection and talk? This episode explores how introverts and extroverts relate, clash, and co-regulate. You’ll get nervous system insights, tools for communication, and rituals to stop the pursue–withdraw cycle and feel more seen, safe, and connected. 🎁 Grab your free Relationship Reconnect Toolkit at www.nicolabeer.com/gift [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/b8f14ccf-1f96-4390-b406-9cfc03b0049f.mp3) ## [Codependency in Relationships, Over-Giving & Self-Abandonment](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/Codependency-in-Relationships) _2025-09-26 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Codependency in Relationships Do you give too much in your relationship and still feel unseen or anxious? In this episode, Nicola Beer explores how codependency, over-giving, and self-abandonment take root in childhood—and how to finally begin healing. 💛 Get the Self-Confidence Free Course to support you: 👉 training.nicolabeer.com/self-confidence-meditation 💬 Get powerful Relationship… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/69241bc7-cb29-47dd-86f2-9d287690951d.mp3) ## [How to Save a Marriage by Changing These 6 Hidden Thought Patterns](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/How-to-Save-a-Marriage) _2025-09-09 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ If you’re feeling disconnected in your relationship, it may be your mindset—not your partner. In this episode, Nicola Beer reveals 6 hidden thought patterns that quietly damage love and trust, and shares how shifting them can help you reconnect and rebuild your marriage. Download the FREE Relationship Reconnect Toolkit: https://training.nicolabeer.com/7-secrets-marriage Learn about the… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8d08a2f9-e5b4-4193-b08a-9b1d6b5bf84c.mp3) ## [Trade Bitcoin & Ethereum (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/xq5xmlULfD2M) _2025-09-09 · **Sponsored**_ Buy, sell and margin trade BTC & ETH with fiat currencies ## [Infidelity Trauma Recovery - How to Heal After an Affair or Betrayal](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/infidelity-trauma-recovery) _2025-09-02 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Infidelity trauma runs deeper than the betrayal itself. In this episode, Nicola explains why affairs feel so devastating, how to calm trauma in the body, and what it really takes to heal—whether you stay or go. Learn to reclaim your dignity, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-worth. If you're struggling with infidelity trauma—whether you're in the chaos of discovery, stuck in limbo, or… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/444b3619-c07e-416c-89ec-75a78bba1d95.mp3) ## [How to Know When to End a Relationship or Keep Trying?](https://podcast.nicolabeer.com/How-to-know-when-to-end-a-relationship) _2025-08-26 · Relationship Revival: Marriage, Communication & Healing from Infidelity and Disconnection_ Are you unsure whether to end your relationship or keep trying? In this episode, Nicola Beer guides you through how to know when to end a relationship by looking at emotional safety, mutual effort, and core values. You’ll learn how to spot the signs of deeper incompatibility, external stressors clouding your clarity, and what’s worth fighting for. 👉 Breakthrough Program – Gain clarity & direction… [Listen](https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2bdb25f1-4130-47b5-8fc8-767874717c04.mp3) ## [Join me in shaping your best life after 50](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/join-me-in-shaping-your-best-life) _2025-03-02 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ A free summit for men to find advice on strengthening relationships, mind and body. ## [Reconnect with Yourself](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/reconnect-with-yourself) _2025-02-26 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ I'm hosting a men's retreat near Berlin this autumn. ## [🎬 Watch me work with a couple recovering from infidelity](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/watch-me-work-with-a-couple-recovering) _2024-10-27 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ Access hours of free sessions to help you and your partner heal. ## [💥 Fighting back after infidelity](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/fighting-back-after-infidelity) _2024-10-22 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ Some free resources to help you recover. ## [Five Questions from Readers Living Through Infidelity](https://themeaningfullife.substack.com/p/five-questions-from-readers-living) _2024-10-01 · The Meaningful Life · The Meaningful Life_ I answer your questions about the process of recovery