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I don’t talk a lot about my adoptive dad, but I actively miss him every day. He felt extremely left out of the weird relationship my adoptive mom and I had, which baffled me as a kid. What he was actually observing was our enmeshment , and I guess he thought he wanted in on that. That’d made me sad. Really, I’d had an incredibly normal and healthy relationship with my adoptive dad—just terse.…