The people who host every holiday, remember every anniversary, and keep the family group chat alive aren’t naturally organised, they often watched what happened in their childhood when nobody bothered, and quietly decided it wouldn’t happen again on their watch

The family member who hosts every holiday and keeps the group chat alive rarely became that person by accident. Psychology research on childhood emotional neglect and intergenerational family dynamics suggests they're often keeping a quiet promise made in childhood — that the silence they grew up in wouldn't repeat on their watch. The post The people who host every holiday, remember every…