like bees to a flame

i promised to myself i would write here regularly. you can guess how that's gone. the point is that i'm here in the present, or i think i am. isn't it awful that people make so many assumptions about others? how would you feel if someone told you they see you as a roleplayer and not a real transgender person? i'm not traditionally feminine. i like it! i really do, but i try to avoid it because i…