Vlad is back, am I the baddie?

Vlad messaged me on Instagram. Eight(!) years I didn't force myself to write because first I sent him away because of something. And then I lived being sure I didn't have the right to ask for peace. Yet he messaged me on his own... We quickly changed numbers and started talking, it took summarily three hours. He was drinking vodka while talking to me. Maybe this spirit was what pushed him to break…