# dso (audio feeds) — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 2 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover dso. Page: Feed: --- ## [Sexless Marriage... How Long Will You Wait For Her To Change?](https://share.transistor.fm/s/afe8a4a5) _2026-08-14 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ He told himself the same thing for eleven years. Just hold on until the kids are grown, then we'll reconnect. The empty nest came. Nothing changed. In this one I read a real email from a 58-year-old man sitting in a silent house, asking if it's too late and whether he wasted his window. Then I walk through the final talk. When to have it, how to have it from a place of strength, and why "waiting… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/afe8a4a5/52e719d8.mp3) ## [She Wasn't Born Cold: Where Your Wife's Avoidance Really Comes From | Ralph & Cassie.](https://share.transistor.fm/s/96c0ac10) _2026-08-11 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ New series, new co-host. Cassie (https://x.com/FutureDrSassy) is an occupational therapist, a researcher, and a certified pelvic floor therapist — and starting now, she and I are going to have the conversations about sex and intimacy that nobody had with any of us growing up. This first one starts where all of it starts: childhood. What you watched your parents do — the hand-holding, the date… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/96c0ac10/ae0b6a88.mp3) ## [Sexless Marriage… She Told Me To "Get It Somewhere Else" — Then Got Mad When I Started Looking](https://share.transistor.fm/s/254db6b8) _2026-08-07 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ His wife said it five or six times over the course of a year. "If you need it that bad, just go find it somewhere else." He sat her down one night and asked her to confirm it. She did. Twice. A few weeks later he had one phone call with an old friend from college. Ninety minutes. No flirting. Nothing physical. She was going through her own divorce and needed someone to talk to. A few days later,… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/254db6b8/53cb0fa2.mp3) ## [Why Women Emasculate Men — and Why You Must NEVER Cave | Alison Armstrong Interview](https://share.transistor.fm/s/7cd5f77c) _2026-08-03 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ Alison Armstrong has been studying men since 1991, when she caught herself bringing out the worst in them and assuming that's who men really were. Thirty-five years later, she's the author of The Queen's Code, the creator of the Understanding Men and Understanding Women courses, and most of her work is teaching WOMEN to stop emasculating men. This week she sat down with a channel full of guys… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/7cd5f77c/235d9ab2.mp3) ## [Sexless Marriage... So I Stopped Initiating. She Didn't Notice.](https://share.transistor.fm/s/bde773c4) _2026-07-31 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ He stopped initiating six months ago. He told himself it was a test. He waited for her to notice. She never did. In this episode I break down what's actually going on when a husband quietly withdraws from his sexless marriage and his wife doesn't react. Spoiler: it's not what most guys think. It's not her being checked out for a week. It's data. And the data is loud. We cover: The quiet test most… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/bde773c4/e2cdbec5.mp3) ## ["I Love You. I Just Can't Be What You Need." | A Live Chat with Attachment Expert Cassie N.](https://share.transistor.fm/s/5b07dddb) _2026-07-29 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ What if she already loves you as much as she is capable of loving anybody? And it's still not enough for you. Not because she's cruel. Not because she's punishing you. Not because there's a switch you haven't found yet. The tank just isn't that big. I had an attachment expert named Cassie on my live stream, and she told me a story I haven't been able to shake. She'd been with an avoidant man who… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/5b07dddb/bdf5bcaa.mp3) ## [Chat LIVE with Ralph & Laura How: Attachment, Monogamy & Why Nobody Grows Up Anymore](https://share.transistor.fm/s/c886fb76) _2026-07-27 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ A full hour LIVE with therapist and author Laura How — one of the very few women publicly saying what she says about sexless marriages. So few, in fact, that the wives in her own village have stopped saying hello. We covered a lot of ground: whether you should stay when the in-love feelings fade, why "I fell out of love" is usually an ego defense, what attachment dysfunction actually is (hint:… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/c886fb76/0260ec39.mp3) ## [Sexless Marriage: She Takes Care of Herself But Won't Touch Me](https://share.transistor.fm/s/82caaa03) _2026-07-24 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ He came home early from a work trip. Didn't text ahead. Walked in and found out the truth. His wife doesn't have a desire problem. The desire works fine. He's just not part of it. Derek wrote me after sitting in his car for twenty minutes trying to figure out what to do with what he just found out. In this episode I break down what's actually going on — why the vibrator isn't about preference,… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/82caaa03/4b83a9fb.mp3) ## [Taking Your Dead Bedroom Questions LIVE: 10-Year Droughts, Avoidant Wives & Why Ultimatums Work](https://share.transistor.fm/s/dbd33182) _2026-07-21 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ Here is a recording of impromptu live stream I recently did. No script, no agenda, just me and the chat. And as usual, the unscheduled ones end up being the best ones. This stream turned into a full clinic on the stuff I hear from men every single day: the guy who told his wife he desired her and got nothing back. The guy 10 years into a sexless marriage who swears he "shouldn't have to" bring it… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/dbd33182/12832b24.mp3) ## [She Called Me a Narcissist for Leaving. Was She Right?](https://share.transistor.fm/s/b80b099e) _2026-07-17 · Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over_ A man divorces his wife after two years of zero affection post-menopause. He starts dating again, shares his story with a woman he's seeing, and she calls him a narcissist. His ex-wife used the same word. Now he's writing to me wondering if they're right. In this episode, I break down what actual narcissism is, why the word has become a go-to weapon in relationship conflict, and how to think… [Listen](https://p.podderapp.com/1545910633/media.transistor.fm/b80b099e/a6f8321e.mp3) ## [Open directory of blogs (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/mCWOhZ2MLgOK) _2026-07-17 · **Sponsored**_ Drop URLs or OPML — get per-blog pages plus machine-readable JSON, OPML, text ## S5Ep6 - Agentic AI in the Wild: Risks, Reality and a Framework for Survival with Max Corbridge _2026-01-05 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S5EP6 Agentic AI in the Wild: Risks, Reality and a Framework for Survival with Max Corbridge In this episode of DSO Overflow , hosts Glenn Wilson and Steve Giguere are joined by ethical hacker and AI security specialist Max Corbridge to explore the rise of agentic AI. Max explains how agentic systems differ from generative AI, the new security risks created by autonomous actions, and… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/18454073-s5ep6-agentic-ai-in-the-wild-risks-reality-and-a-framework-for-survival-with-max-corbridge.mp3) ## S5Ep5 - How to save $20,000 per year with Vimal Paliwal _2025-11-14 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S5EP5 Saving $20,000 a year by self-hosting a map server with Vimal Paliwal In this episode, Vimal Paliwal talks about how he led a migration project that saved his organisation $20,000 annually. He talks about how he overcame challenges he faced resulting from compute and storage demands. Vimal discusses how he ensured cost-efficiency and security by implementing a fully serverless… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/18190024-s5ep5-how-to-save-20-000-per-year-with-vimal-paliwal.mp3) ## S5Ep4 - Threat modelling and AI with Petra Vukmirovic _2025-10-14 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S5EP4 Threat modelling and AI with Petra Vukmirovic In this episode Petra Vukmirovic, head of information security and technology at Numan, shares her experience of threat modelling within an AI landscape drawing from her background in medicine to highlight similarities between differential diagnosis and threat modelling. She discusses the opportunities and the risks of integrating AI… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/18008736-s5ep4-threat-modelling-and-ai-with-petra-vukmirovic.mp3) ## S5Ep3 - AI and Auto-remediation with Jonathan Schneider _2025-09-09 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S5EP3 AI and auto-remediation with Jonathan Schneider In this episode Jonathan Schneider discusses his path from Netflix to founding Moderne, focusing on large-scale software modernisation. The conversation covers the promise and pitfalls of AI and auto-remediation. Jonathan advocates for empowering developers with self-service, pull-based tooling rather than top-down changes and… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/17814286-s5ep3-ai-and-auto-remediation-with-jonathan-schneider.mp3) ## S5Ep2 - Vulnerability Management, Supply Chain threats and AI with Mackenzie Jackson _2025-08-13 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S5EP2 Vulnerability Management, Supply Chain threats and AI with Mackenzie Jackson In this episode of DSO Overflow, Mackenzie Jackson discusses his transition from GitGuardian to Aikido Security, where he focuses on Application Security Posture Management (ASPM). He explains ASPM as an integrated platform that consolidates security tools. The conversation explores Aikido Security's… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/17664244-s5ep2-vulnerability-management-supply-chain-threats-and-ai-with-mackenzie-jackson.mp3) ## S5Ep1 - Securing the Software Supply Chain with Francois Proulx _2025-01-31 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S5EP1 Security the Software Supply Chain with Francois Proulx In this episode, featuring Francois Proulx, a senior product security engineer, we discuss software supply chain security, particularly the security of build pipelines and dependencies. Francois shares insights on defining supply chains, identifying vulnerabilities, threat modeling, and strategies to improve security. The… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/16454304-s5ep1-securing-the-software-supply-chain-with-francois-proulx.mp3) ## S4Ep10 - Threat modelling with Ashley Ward _2024-12-06 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S4EP10 Threat Modelling with Ashley Ward In this month's episode, Steve and Glenn chatted with Ashley Ward to discuss topics around threat modelling. Ashley is a highly experienced CTO at ControlPlan with expertise in cloud-native architectures and cybersecurity, known for leading transformative initiatives across startups and large enterprises, including as Group CTO for a €4.5… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/16232477-s4ep10-threat-modelling-with-ashley-ward.mp3) ## S4Ep9 - Open Source Integrity with Luke Hinds _2024-11-19 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S4EP9 Open Source Integrity with Luke Hinds In this month's episode, Jessica and Glenn chatted with Luke Hinds to discuss topics around Open Source integrity and provenance. Luke is a co-founder and the CTO at Stacklok who loves building open source software and communities, as well as leading talented engineering teams to develop innovative cutting edge security technologies at… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/16132891-s4ep9-open-source-integrity-with-luke-hinds.mp3) ## S4Ep8 - Cloud Native and Kubernetes with Steve Wade and Michael Foster _2024-10-22 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S4EP8 Cloud Native and Kubernetes with Steve Wade and Michael Foster In this month's episode, Steve met with Steve Wade and Michael Foster to talk about the Cloud Native Club and new and future developments in Kubernetes. Steve Wade founded The Cloud Native Club , a global community for cloud-native enthusiasts. He is also a maintainer of the Flux Terraform Provider. As an experienced… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/15963385-s4ep8-cloud-native-and-kubernetes-with-steve-wade-and-michael-foster.mp3) ## [Code Faster with Clear Tutorials (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/vpCLvD9G1XAy) _2024-10-22 · **Sponsored**_ Short, step-by-step coding videos you can follow along ## S4Ep7 - Managing the risks that really matter with Sam Watkins _2024-09-16 · DSO Overflow_ DSO Overflow S4EP7 Managing the risks that really matter with Sam Watkins In this month's episode, Glenn and Jessica speak with Sam Watkins to talk about a new paradigm for managing risks. Sam Watkins is an accomplished engineer working at BT in the UK. Sam is driven by a passion for driving change through the implementation of technological solutions, possessing the expertise in impacting… [Listen](https://www.buzzsprout.com/733070/episodes/15762756-s4ep7-managing-the-risks-that-really-matter-with-sam-watkins.mp3)