birds, bees, & messy desks

When Sung and I moved in together, one of the first things we ever established as part of living together is that my desk was an untouchable zone. Untouchable in that I would do my best to keep our shared spaces neat (an ongoing process, because I am unfortunately the kind of person that will not tidy things up until I am overwhelmed by just how messy I've let things gotten, and then hyper-fixate…