It’s Not That You Fight. It’s What Happens Inside the Fight.

By the time a couple starts wondering whether the marriage is in real trouble, both partners are usually keeping a private tally. Two fights this week. Four last month. One of you counts them as evidence the marriage is failing. The other counts them as evidence that bringing things up only makes it worse. The ... Read more The post It’s Not That You Fight. It’s What Happens Inside the Fight.…