Is that a man or a woman?

“Is that a man or a woman?” some guy loudly asked the bus driver. I’d just boarded the bus, wearing an elegant outfit I’d put together for a lounge music performance some friends put on. He was so far away, in another car of the bus. I assumed he was harrassing another trans person. He kept going on, the bus driver asked him to stop while everyone else ignored him. I was preparing to confront him,…