some of you need to stop psychoanalising your kinks and start doing mad scientist shit to them…

ratbastardhours : tongue-twists : some of you need to stop psychoanalising your kinks and start doing mad scientist shit to them instead. no more "do I enjoy being tied up because I secretly crave an excuse not to fight back against intimacy because of my mother", that is dumb and useless. start doing shit like "what do I like about being tied up? what part of it gets me going?" and then once you…