What I would have done differently with my birth

I do have regrets with my birth. I do have moments where I look back and I’m mad at myself. I’m trying to turn those “regrets” into lessons and yes I am logical enough to know where I deserve grace. But I do think it’s also important to reflect back on life ask yourself what exactly did I need to learn here? These are mine when it comes to my birth. (I had a traumatic birth unfortunately which I…