How do you stop thinking, "I got lucky that time," and start thinking, "I survived that," instead?

The answer to this question might be somewhere if I dug into how one changes from a "fixed mindset" to a "growth mindset," but having not read the literature, I'm left asking this question to myself in my current constellation of thoughts. Current things I'm mulling over: 1. I've resumed reading How to Deal With Emotionally Explosive People by Albert J. Bernstein, which I started because I…