# art noticing (blogs) — RSS Amplifier Recent posts from the 2 feeds in the RSS Amplifier directory that cover art noticing. Page: Feed: --- ## [SHALEWA](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/shalewa) _2026-08-21 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Part 1 ## [The Emotional Scripts We Inherit From Our Mothers](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/the-emotional-scripts-we-inherit) _2026-08-13 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Some of the things we are still unlearning were taught to us before we were old enough to question them. ## [Day 89/100: Are You Really an Overthinker, or Are They Just Undercommunicating?](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-89100-are-you-really-an-overthinker) _2026-08-12 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Sometimes the Problem Isn't Your Mind. It's the Silence You're Left to Fill. ## [Day 88/100: You Need to Know God for Yourself](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-88100-you-need-to-know-god-for) _2026-08-11 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ The Most Dangerous Thing You Can Believe About God May Be Something He Never Said ## [ABIKE](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/abike) _2026-08-08 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ I was seven years old when my parents died. ## [Day 87: The Depth of Death](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/the-depth-of-death) _2026-08-06 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ What Losing Life Teaches the People Who Are Left Behind ## [Day 86: Are You a Broke Woman With an Opinion?](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-86-are-you-a-broke-woman-with) _2026-07-31 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ The Uncomfortable Relationship Between Money, Confidence, and Having a Voice ## [Day 85: Your Head, Your Legs and Your Future](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-85-your-head-your-legs-and-your) _2026-07-30 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ The Three Things You Must Learn to Protect ## [Day 84: I’m Always Going to Be in My Prime](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-84-im-always-going-to-be-in-my) _2026-07-29 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Why I Refuse to Believe My Best Years Have an Expiry Date ## [Day 83: Can a 9–5 Make You Wealthy as a Woman?](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-83-can-a-95-make-you-wealthy) _2026-07-28 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Rethinking Success, Stability, and What Financial Freedom Really Means ## [Crush Every Threat in Real Time (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/NwJ6NUAs1TRn) _2026-07-28 · **Sponsored**_ One agent for real-time detection, exposure tracking, and active defense. ## [ADEKITAN](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/adekitan) _2026-07-25 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ My mother once told me… ## [Day 82/100: I’m officially an author. And it’s also my birthday today.🥹🩷](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-82100-im-officially-an-author) _2026-07-18 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Today feels like one of those moments I will remember for a very long time. ## [Day 81/100: If You Are A Woman Living Alone Or Planning To Move Into Your Own Apartment, Read This.](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-81100-if-you-are-a-woman-living) _2026-07-13 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ I don’t know if it’s just me😭, but there’s a special kind of freedom that comes with having a space that is completely yours. ## [Day 80/100: I’m officially becoming an author in six days.](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-80100-im-officially-becoming) _2026-07-12 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ When I started this 100-day Substack challenge, my goal was to become more consistent here. ## [Day 79/100: To a Traditional Man, "Core Femininity" Means Having the Voice of a Mouse and Behaving Like a "Didirin"](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-79100-to-a-traditional-man-core) _2026-07-03 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Before getting into this conversation, I need to explain what I mean by a traditional man. ## [Day 78/100: If I loved you before and you did me bad, well, I still love you. Just stay the hell away from me, though.](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-78100-if-i-loved-you-before-and) _2026-07-02 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ This probably sounds contradictory. ## [Day 76/100: There is no reason to be a people pleaser. People are never pleased](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-76100-there-is-no-reason-to-be) _2026-07-01 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ No matter what you do, how hard you try, or how much you sacrifice - someone will always find something to complain about. ## [Day 75/100: Distance kills feelings, silence kills connection, pride kills love](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-75100-distance-kills-feelings) _2026-06-30 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ These are the three things that destroy relationships. ## [Day 74/100: How to build genuine connections with people](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-74100-how-to-build-genuine-connections) _2026-06-29 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ Genuine connections are relationships built on authenticity, not performance. ## [Day 73/100: 10 completely LEGAL things you can do for fun](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-73100-10-completely-legal-things) _2026-06-28 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ 1 ## [Home of the Agentic Pull Request (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/E3IGZKqrdvfC) _2026-06-28 · **Sponsored**_ CLI-first, TUI-ready toolkits and a moshscript installer — join the waitlist ## [Day 72/100: I love the art of noticing](https://bigpheebs.substack.com/p/day-72100-i-love-the-art-of-noticing) _2026-06-27 · Phoebe Ayegbokiki · Life Coded By PHEEBS_ I love the art of noticing. ## [Using Play as a Signal, Not a Personality Trait](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/using-play-as-a-signal-not-a-personality) _2026-02-22 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Connecting with Play ## [What Disconnection Usually Means (and What It Doesn't)](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/what-disconnection-usually-means) _2026-02-16 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Connection After Disconnection ## [Subtle Self-Attunement](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/subtle-self-attunement) _2026-02-08 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Connecting to Self ## [How to Begin Without Changing Your Life](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/how-to-begin-without-changing-your) _2026-02-01 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Re-enchanting Beginnings ## [Tiny Rituals That Anyone Can Practice](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/tiny-rituals-that-anyone-can-practice) _2026-01-25 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Re-enchanting Rituals ## [How Inner Guidance Actually Shows Up](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/how-inner-guidance-actually-shows) _2026-01-18 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Re-enchanting inner guidance ## [What a “Secret Message” Is (and Isn’t)](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/what-a-secret-message-is-and-isnt) _2026-01-11 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Re-enchanting the definition of a secret message ## [How to Notice Your First Secret Message of the Year](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/how-to-notice-your-first-secret-message) _2026-01-04 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ Re-enchanting the subtle art of noticing ## [Begin Here](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/begin-here) _2025-12-28 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ One day. One message. One small act of attention. ## [Hire AI-Powered Professionals (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/fzYVMj65bkrn) _2025-12-28 · **Sponsored**_ Browse public gigs, message candidates, and run video interviews — free to start. ## [Why I Built a Quiet App for Creative Souls in a Loud World.](https://secretmessagesociety.substack.com/p/why-i-built-a-quiet-app-for-creative) _2025-12-21 · Secret Message Society · Secret Message Society_ I can’t think of a better visual to open with than the Superman movie Man of Steel. There is a flashback scene to a young Clark Kent who is overwhelmed by his emerging powers. As a budding superhero with xray vision and super hearing, it’s understandable.