Even some ardent Xander haters are endeared by his “You’re extraordinary” speech but I’M not and my…

Even some ardent Xander haters are endeared by his &ldquo;You’re extraordinary&rdquo; speech but I’M not and my reasons are threefold and I will tell you them now. One: That speech isn’t for Dawn. It’s for Xander. He projects his feelings of inadequacy onto her and then tells her what he wishes someone would tell him. Two: It implies that everyone around him was handed some sort of gift that he…