should we punish ourselves when we drop a habit?

Look at the date of the last blog I wrote on here. June 19th. Oops. I got really excited about my BearBlog when I first built it over 6 months ago, but then life got busy and I didn't establish a sticky enough habit of writing in it. I went to Rome in July, August was full of events, September was Birthday Season, I was in Japan for all of October and in Canada visiting family for…