Is it better to be loose or Tight?

Last Thursday, my boyfriend told me, in a serious and solemn tone: “Baby, I think you’re too tight. It hurts.” (Note: this piece took me like 3 months to get back to, so it was actually like something he said ~3 months ago) I was really confused. Isn’t it good to be Tight? Growing up, my family always taught me to be tight, to be restrictive with my spending. I recall being three years old,…