On belief and why I can’t be religious

I saw a funny post earlier today where someone on twitter wondered what non-religious people do when they’re in despair. The OP asks where they go when they’re hurting, where they turn to when the pain becomes too big for them, if not a divine being? The humorous part was the reply saying “archiveofourown.org” I sent the post to my friends because it was funny, but then I got to thinking about the…