I am very sorry other plural folks are coming after you and I don’t understand the hostility. Even in Plural centric surveys [actual academic ones! They do exist!] You are often asked to fill out information as collectively as possible per body because the purpose is to gather information about an experience, and it is nearly useless to gather alter specific information in an academic setting unless it is extremely granular. I’ve helped with surveys for sociology studies for non singlet individuals at the academic level, you are handling it absolutely professionally. Could there be better systems? Probably, but to the best of our ability you are doing a professional job [especially with your wording asking for “one response per body” and not “per person” or “per person or System” which are exclusive of multiple system bodies and singles out plural folks]

I am very sorry other plural folks are coming after you and I don't understand the hostility. Ahhh it's not so bad - I think people are understandably feeling erased and unheard, and occasionally they do get a bit intense about it, but for the most part I think people are just doing their best. I also kinda get why plural folks hope that the Gender Census could be the project to finally see them,…