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If you grew up without the permission to say no to doing a lot of things things, and you're up against a tremedous challenge, and your motivation is "I'm just doing what I have to", and people can't fathom that? That's a sign that you've likely taped over a lot of warning lights in your brain and/or are running on War Emergency Power. Getting some relief and/or mental health intervention should be…