The Time Collapse: Module 2

This is module 2 to the multi part series/course, The Time Collapse where we are exploring how to collapse the time it takes for your desires, money, more clients, success, opportunities, love, etc, to show up. And as always, if you are in the app, you can hit “listen” and it will read the entire module to you.

A few years ago, I worked with a woman who to most people was “doing everything right”

She was laser focused on her goals and had complete clarity. She loved journaling and would journal every morning. She did the 5 year plan, scripted, vision boarding, etc but somehow she was still hitting an income ceiling and still unable to feel the true financial freedom that she desired.

This is what I hear from a lot of potential clients when we do discovery calls. They think they’re “doing the work” and while she was taking action. She was missing the thing that is most important and that is complete alignment. Congruence. And all of the “action” doesn’t take the place of that. Actually, complete congruence does more of the heavy lifting that action ever could.

Here is a question that I want you to ask yourself.

What in me is telling a different story than the one that I am asking to live?

In Module 1, we spoke about releasing the hold on the idea that time is what is keeping you from what you want. The distance between where you are and where you desire to be is never measured in time but in complete and total alignment. Or we can say congruence….

Congruence in this sense is the degree to which your emotions, nervous system and day to day living matches what you desire.

In other words, does your subconscious beliefs match your conscious desires?!?

In more words, “do you believe you”

So many people believe they’re in alignment when in reality they’re not. If they were, they’d have what they desired. It doesn’t how convinced you are consciously. You can believe something with every fiber of your conscious being and still be misaligned because the unconscious/subconscious beliefs do not align. This is why the conversation of nervous system regulation has become very important. If you were truly congruent, there wouldn’t be nervous system dysregulation.

Here is a more simplified working definition that I think will be helpful as you move forward through this course.

Congruence: What is happening when the emotional truth of your day to day life and the emotional truth of your deepest desires are no longer in conflict.

When incongruent, even if by some miracle you get what you desired it will not remain.