Announcement: Being Demi, a Collection of Poems and Essays
Announcing a new poetry and non-fiction project to be released in October.
The Grey Rainbow
Thoughts and musings from a newly out demisexual
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There is a World of Difference Between Asexuality and Being an Incel
Incels and asexuals are two very different things. Why do people keep confusing the two?
How For Some Demisexuals, Aesthetic Attraction Arrives Later
I don't really "notice" how physically attractive someone is until I am already attracted to their personality.
Demisexuality is Emotion-Based Attraction, But What Does That Actually Mean?
Demisexuality is an emotion based orientation. In this article I explain what that actually means in real terms.
A Post for all the Older Men Seeing Themselves Reflected in My Writing
There are some people out there still working it out. This is to all the older men who are in that place
The Main Reasons I Write About my Demisexual Experiences
Some thoughts on the progress from coming out to acceptance, from The Ace Space to The Grey Rainbow.
Good Looking? Absolutely. Attractive? That’s Complicated…
Attractiveness is subjective, but being demisexual adds a few extra layers and creates complications for others' perceptions.
Charlie Kirk’s Definition of Masculinity is Everything That’s Wrong With It
Charlie Kirk was recently in Britain and given free reign to spout whatever nonsense came into his head.
Limerence, Demisexuality, Guilt, and Shame
I fully embrace and accept who I am, and that means accepting the harder stuff is a feature and not a bug of my sexuality.
So What if Demisexuals are Picky? We’ve as much Right as Anyone
"Demisexuals are just picky!" No, we're not. This is a sexuality. Even if it wasn't, so what?