The Personalities Psychedelics Reward (And Punish)

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This week: Why Psychedelics reward some personalities while making others even harder to be around.

10 years ago, I was a different person. I was anxious, rigid in my thinking, more concerned with being right & uncomfortable with uncertainty. In retrospect, I wasn't always the easiest person to be around. (A few ex-girlfriends can confirm.) Today I’m noticeably more curious, far less neurotic & more willing to change my mind.

I can’t tell you how much of that came from Psychedelics versus meditation, writing, grief, 8 years without alcohol or simply getting older. Probably all of the above. But the direction of change is unmistakable.

A growing body of evidence suggests I’m not alone. Recent research shows classic Psychedelics like Psilocybin, LSD & Ayahuasca are associated with lasting increases in openness & decreases in neuroticism.

But that’s only half the story.

After spending years around this world, I’m convinced Psychedelics don’t affect every personality equally. Some people become more curious, humble & emotionally resilient. Others become dogmatic, spiritually grandiose or simply harder to be around.

The question isn't whether Psychedelics are "good" or "bad." The question is which personalities they reward...and which they punish.

People who are genuinely curious ask better questions rather than chase predetermined answers. Psychedelics amplify exploration without requiring certainty. The experience becomes an invitation instead of a verdict.

The people who can say “I don’t know” integrate experiences better than those convinced they already understand consciousness. Wonder scales better than certainty.

If you’re capable of updating beliefs, admitting mistakes & experimenting with new behaviors, Psychedelic insights have somewhere to land. Insight without behavioral change is entertainment.

People attached to certainty spend trips fighting them. Afterwards they either dismiss everything…or become convinced every symbolic thought is objective truth. Both reactions are attempts to preserve certainty.

One of the easiest traps. The experience becomes evidence that you’ve awakened while everyone else remains asleep. Ego survives by changing costumes.

People waiting for the medicine to fix them accumulate ceremonies instead of changing their lives. The ceremony ends…your habits remain.

High neuroticism can make experiences harder, but many also show the greatest reductions afterward. It's punished in the moment, then often rewarded over time.

Psychedelics don’t create personality, they amplify the personality already there. They can deepen curiosity or inflate certainty. They can cultivate humility or feed grandiosity. They can expose fear…or become another way to avoid it.

The molecule matters, dose matters, set & setting matter. Life stage matters a lot as well…which is why I don't recommend young adults work with Psychedelics. Let personality form before tinkering with it.

After years of watching people work with these substances, I suspect personality matters more than most of us admit. Psychedelics amplify what you bring into the experience.

Some traits make that amplification constructive. Others make it destructive.

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