
DAD'S HABS HAT
“I think he wore it partly as a good-natured dare, an invitation to take the bait.”
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“I think he wore it partly as a good-natured dare, an invitation to take the bait.”

Or, what happens to keepthings when their keeper is no longer around?

“The life-ending medication came with instructions to mix it with water or applesauce. In her diva-ness, Heather had other plans.”

He was black and white and beloved all over, and my neighborhood will never be the same.

“He tossed and caught it to make the quarters rattle, and I could tell he was proud of having found the perfect vessel for them.”

“It instantly conjured him in full dad mode, building or fixing something, making something better.”

“He always knew where he was headed, whether traveling by car, by boat or by snowmobile.”

“He had a strong sense of nostalgia and a deep regard for objects made to stand the test of time.”

“After she died, I made dishes from it for months, wanting to feel closer to her, wanting to understand us.”

“I built it for him before I left for college, knowing he had a favorite window where he liked to watch the birds come and go.”