A Radical Peace

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Condensed from an original post by Becca Daniel. Read the full post here

I grew up in a non-believing family, so I used to think peace simply meant avoiding conflict. I was praised for being quiet, agreeable, and “keeping the peace” but it left me fearful of any disagreement.

Meeting the Lord at 35 didn’t instantly change that, but growing spiritually taught me something deeper: conflict, when handled with mercy and a desire for resolution, can lead to stronger relationships.

Like weathering a wilderness trip with friends, going through hard moments together can build trust and closeness.

Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5 shows that real peacemakers aren’t conflict-avoiders; they are people who pursue purity of heart and mercy, even when emotions run high.

Being a peacemaker requires sacrifice: choosing love over pride, and fighting the sin in our own hearts rather than the people in front of us.

In a world full of injustice and division, it’s tempting to seek peace in the wrong places.

But as Jesus reminds us in John 16, true peace comes only from Him.

Because He overcame the world, we can hold onto peace even when everything around us feels heavy.

Call to Action

Pray and Reflect on:

John 16:33

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world, you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Isaiah 26:3

“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.”

Matthew 5:9

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.

Matthew 5:44

“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”

Reflections

• What is one sacrifice you could make for peace?

• How does conflict look when you are focused on being merciful?

• Can you pray for a difficult person today?

• What relationship in your life has been strengthened through conflict?