You’re smart. You’re successful. And yet… you still feel stuck in your head—spinning about food, control, self-doubt, and keeping everyone else happy. This show isn’t just about food. It’s about self-trust, confidence, and breaking the habit of performing on the outside while struggling on the inside. The Renae Saager Show is for high-functioning women who are tired of spiraling, done with people-pleasing, and ready to stop living a double life—for good. I’m Renae Saager—mindset coach, speaker,…
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In this episode, Renae welcomes back Béa Victoria Albina, author of the new book End Emotional Outsourcing . Béa shares how emotional outsourcing goes way beyond simple “people pleasing”—it’s a nervous system survival skill that gets wired into us early on. Together, they dig into what emotional outsourcing really means, how it shows up in relationships, and why self-trust and somatic healing are…
In this episode, Renae sits down with her husband David to talk about what happens when you and your partner want totally different things out of a weekend. One of you thrives on staying busy, the other is perfectly content lounging at home—and both of you end up a little resentful. They share how they’ve (imperfectly) navigated these differences, from carving out “me-time” to begrudgingly…
What happens when motherhood doesn’t check every single box? When you love your kid like crazy and still want more for yourself? In this episode, I get into the messy, complicated truth about feeling unfulfilled in motherhood. The guilt, the judgment, the “shouldn’t this be enough?” soundtrack we all pick up from family, media, and society. I talk about why I don’t believe one role, even…
In this episode, Renae dives into the messy reality of support—the kind you dream of getting, the kind that blindsides you in the best way, and the kind that never comes. From launching her first merch line to releasing her book to the hardest chapter of losing her mom, she shares the sting of being let down by people she thought would be there, alongside the deep gratitude for unexpected support…
This week, I sat down with my friend Katie to talk about the real stuff: comparison traps, GLP-1 drugs, and why we’re all so hooked on the next quick fix. From eating disorders to over-giving in relationships, Katie shares how chasing “skinny” nearly cost her everything — and what actually changed when she stopped outsourcing her worth. We also get into dopamine addiction, why “what I eat in a…
Going out to eat used to be a battlefield. I’d spend days restricting, obsessing over the menu, showing up starving, pretending to have “just a few bites,” then swinging through Taco Bell on the way home to binge in secret. This week I’m telling the story of how the same exact scenario looks now: ordering what I want, sharing dessert, taking leftovers home, even eating them later that night —…
Motherhood isn’t diapers, snacks, and never-ending laundry — that’s caregiving. And while caregiving is hard, it’s not the same thing as being a mom. In this conversation with Hannah Olson , we break down the difference between the two and why this shift in language can lift so much of the guilt and pressure moms feel. We get into: Why “motherhood is hard” is the wrong phrase (and what to say…
This episode isn’t some 5-step plan for finding your passion. It’s a real conversation about what happens when your priorities shift—and you’re not sure if that means you're maturing or just giving up. Renae talks about how having a kid, getting married, and not giving a shit about abs anymore has her rethinking the whole “never settle” narrative. Is it settling... or is it finally feeling safe?…
In this raw, reflective episode of The Renae Saager Show , Renae shares the messy truth behind her longest run in nearly a decade—and how it cracked open unexpected clarity about identity, comparison, and self-trust. What starts as a story about an 8-hour race turns into real talk about the emotional weight of doing life differently: raising a toddler without family nearby, grieving a parent,…
In this episode, Renae tackles one of the most common (and quietly shame-filled) questions she gets from women: “Why am I snacking nonstop after my toddler goes to bed/at the end of the day?" t’s not because you “lack discipline.” It’s because you’re underfed, overextended, and running yourself into the ground, all while trying to stay calm, competent, and invisible. Renae breaks down the real…