# Suzanne Says... Thoughts and observations about living an authentic life, realizing your potential, and leaving your mark on this world in ways that are meaningful to you. F-bombs are likely. Strong opinions, too. Page: Feed: --- ## [I Lost My Shit Today and Ended Up In Good Trouble](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/i-lost-my-shit-today-and-ended-up) _2025-10-09 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Some days falling apart is how we fall back into ourselves. ## [Why Saying No is So Damn Hard](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/why-saying-no-is-so-damn-hard) _2025-08-19 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ (And what you can do about it.) ## [The (Very Underrated) Art of Being Unbothered](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/the-very-underrated-art-of-being) _2025-05-14 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Being liked is fine. Being you is better. ## [Tips for Becoming and Staying Informed](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/becoming-and-staying-informed-despite) _2025-02-05 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Note: Cool heads, warm hearts, and clear, wide-open eyes are required. ## [The Hard Work In Front of Us](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/the-hard-work-in-front-of-us) _2025-02-04 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ It's time to get to it. ## [My Daughters-In-Law](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/my-daughters-in-law) _2025-01-07 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Happy 14th Anniversary, no matter what happens this year. ❤️ ## [If you're not in charge of yourself, that's the problem.](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/if-youre-not-in-charge-of-yourself) _2024-11-27 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Day #22078 ## [Inconceivable!](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/inconceivable) _2024-10-15 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ More than a callback to my favorite movie, unfortunately... ## [How To Discuss Touchy Subjects With People Who Matter To You](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/how-to-discuss-touchy-subjects-with) _2024-09-02 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Watch Jon Stewart show us how it's done. ## [From any door to your door (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/DMXUdmR4T5rE) _2024-09-02 · **Sponsored**_ Book rides, errands, deliveries, groceries and home help in one app ## [A Very Personal Litmus Test](https://suzannesays.substack.com/p/a-very-personal-litmus-test) _2024-08-31 · Suzanne Bird-Harris_ Despite knowing I'll never be 100% sure of anything about an institution as large and unwieldy as our system of government, one question decides how I vote now.