# SURE Parenting - Sami Sami Bell created S.U.R.E. Parenting to help other cycle-breaking parents embody Self-Honor, understand Unique brains, cultivate Respect, and Empathetically reach their children's hearts. Page: Feed: --- ## [Is the "Mother Wound" Discourse Just Polished Up Mom-Shaming?](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/is-the-mother-wound-discourse-just) _2026-08-07 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ Changing the vocabulary doesn't erase the shame ## [When Intent Doesn't Matter](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/when-intent-doesnt-matter) _2026-03-27 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ When it comes to harm, you're responsible for your impact regardless of intent. ## ["What My Bones Know" by Stephanie Foo - A Must read for C-PTSD Survivors](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/what-my-bones-know-by-stephanie-foo) _2025-12-29 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ A raw, compelling, exposing, and ultimately hopeful journey through C-PTSD ## [The Inconvenient Truth About Cycle-Breaking](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/the-inconvenient-truth-about-cycle) _2025-11-06 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ Your nervous system has to find a source of safety! ## [The Bickersons! - When Siblings Squabble](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/the-bickersons-when-siblings-squabble) _2025-11-05 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ How to help siblings who bicker and pester and fight. ## [Welcome to my Substack](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-substack) _2025-11-01 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ Thank you for being a paid subscriber and supporting me! ## [Holy Disrupter by Amy Duggar King - What a Cycle-Breaker!](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/holy-disrupter-by-amy-duggar-what) _2025-10-26 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ My takeaways after reading this daring book... ## [One of the More F\*cked Up Things Neglectful Parenting Accomplishes...](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/one-of-the-more-fcked-up-things-neglectful) _2025-10-24 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ These beliefs live deep within and resurface at seemingly odd times sometimes - but that indicates maybe we're ready to process them in a new healthy way. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/177047619/784652a595f94299019656ca23b9b4b7.mp3) ## ["Gentle" Parenting Shouldn't Be So Rigid You Constantly Feel Like Shit](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/gentle-parenting-shouldnt-be-so-rigid) _2025-10-14 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ "Good enough" is a real thing - even for "gentle" parents ## [Daily plans, scheduled by AI (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/0NmeqyZVAwZi) _2025-10-14 · **Sponsored**_ AI-made daily plans that schedule tasks and protect focus time. ## [How I Regulated My "Leave Me TF Alone!" Mood](https://sureparenting.substack.com/p/how-i-regulated-my-leave-me-tf-alone) _2025-09-19 · SURE Parenting - Sami_ Surprise opportunity to practice what I preach