This post describes seven kinky ideas that will allow you to keep playing even when the temperature soars. All can be played with a partner, most can be played solo too.
Contrasting sensations can amplify each other. Pain and pleasure. Silence and noise. Heat and cold. The frigid touch of ice is diametrically opposite to the sensual touch of a lover. The warmth of bodyheat makes erogenous zones flush pink, whereas ice chills, numbing the skin, dulling the feeling and stealing its colour. In these games the heat of arousal and spankings meets the chill of cool breezes and ice.
When it gets uncomfortably hot, our energy can feel like it’s been sapped away, but it’s also the time when cold can develop an unexpected allure. There comes a temperature when slipping ice cubes into a partner’s bra is no longer considered a spankable prank, but a blessed relief.
In this game you’ll read an erotic story whilst a cool breeze teases you.
This is a game for those hot languid nights when all you can do is flop naked on top of your bedsheets. All that’s needed is an electric fan, a cloth or flannel, a bowl of cold water (add a few ice cubes to chill further), and your choice of erotic fiction.
Begin by undressing completely. Position your fan so you can kneel comfortably on your bed, with your legs open, and your head down.
An alternative position is to lie on your back, you can either spread your legs with your feet together, or raise your legs so your feet are by your shoulders. The latter allows the breeze to tingle both the slit and the bottom hole, and makes an excellent position for passages of stories describing thorough inspections. Or adjust your hips (with a pillow beneath if necessary) so the breeze blows across your bare mound and over your breasts, rather than against your vulva.
Dip your cloth or towel into your bowl of cold water, and use it to wet yourself between your legs. Try just wetting small regions first, like your mound or parts of your bottom cheeks. Your breasts and nipples are also excellent sites to moisten. Wetting your bottom hole provides an even more intense sensation, especially if you hold your cheeks apart and imagine a thorough bottom inspection.
Now turn on your fan, and assume your chosen position. You should feel a cool breeze where you’ve just dabbed the cold water. Don’t place your fan too close. The aim is to feel the breeze blowing over your entire body, not just on your intimate places. As the water you’ve applied to your skin evaporates, it will rapidly cool, making it exquisitely sensitive.
Now, begin reading your chosen story, if you wriggle your hips as you read, you can change where the breeze is focused. Perhaps you’re imagining a lover standing behind you, tugging your bottom open, so you feel their breath tickling your sensitive folds. Or perhaps the draught is caused by a teacher lifting your skirt and exposing you for all the class to see.
As you read, you’ll notice the dampness you applied using the cloth is replaced by your own kind of wetness - and that the wetter you get, the better it feels. If you feel you’re getting too close to coming you can reduce the sensations by closing your legs or lying prone on your bed for a few minutes.
Perhaps the story features a licking, and by wiggling your hips you can choose where your lover’s tongue strokes you. Or perhaps it features a spanking, and you’ll be spanked as the heat of the smacking blends with the cool stimulation of the fan’s breeze.
Whilst you could masturbate whilst the fan cools you down, a more interesting way to play is to not touch yourself at all, and let the sensations of the breeze stimulate you instead. This frees you to read, and fiction becomes so much more immersive when you’re not distracted by masturbating, and fully focused on imagining the story.
And if you’re playing this game with a partner, they can be responsible for reading the story aloud to you, whilst also being in charge of the direction and intensity of the fan.
In this game you’re going to go out wearing your skimpiest bikini under your everyday clothes.
You won’t be going out with an extra bra or panties covering them, just the most revealing swimming costume you own, the one you’d wear to the beach. One piece swimsuits are even kinkier as the material hugs the crotch tight, as well as adding some additional erotic jeopardy, as you’ll need to undress completely in order to pee. This is also the perfect opportunity to get waxed, or shave yourself smooth as well.
As your confidence grows, go out in a floaty summer dress without the top half of your bikini beneath. Even better, leave the thong behind and go out completely bare underneath.
If you’re playing this game with a partner, you’ll be delegating responsibility, they will decide what you get to wear.
There’s also a variation of this game if you live alone, with the freedom to wander around naked. You turn off your aircon if you have it, and nominate a threshold, for instance 24C, and if the temperature rises above that value, that’s your signal to strip off completely - or wear your sundress with nothing on beneath if you’re worried about being glimpsed by your neighbours.
In this game, you (or your partner) is going to use an ice cube to rove across every region of your body.
First fetch some ice cubes, and carry them back to your bedroom in your own discarded underwear. Keeping the ice wrapped in your panties slows its melting and avoids numbing fingers. You, or your partner, will then begin by applying the ice to the tips of the toes, and then rove across the body using the following route:
toes
sole of foot
calf
back of knee
inner thigh
down other leg and 1-5 back up again
pubic mound
tummy
right breast
left breast
upper arm
forearm
palm
between fingers
back to shoulders, then 11-15 on other arm
down the spine
buttocks
anus
perineum
vagina (or scrotum for guys)
labia (or penis shaft for guys)
clitoris (or glans for guys)
The order that locations are visited in this route is deliberate, as many of these areas are very rarely touched sensually. This game will encourage you to explore your body (and that of your partner) rather than heading straight to the X-rated bits.
Once the ice has explored every nook and cranny and the recipient’s body, you might want to try to make yourself, or your partner, come. You could keep the ice wrapped in the sodden panties, cup your crotch and grind against it. Likewise it could be a handjob with an icy grip. Or your partner might put a cube in their mouth, so they use their chilled tongue and lips to lick you intimately. Can you make yourself (or your partner) come with an ice cube?
In this game, you’re going to feel the delicious chill of ice cream, as well as taste it. This one is best played with a partner.
Imagine you’re sent to the kitchen to fetch a bowl of ice cream. Plain vanilla is perfect. No need for a spoon. You must return naked, everything off and left behind, folded neatly on the kitchen table.
When a naughty girl returns, she should be told to lay face-down on the bed and spread her legs, so the bowl can be placed in the gap between her thighs. Her partner can then alternate between fondling and smacking her bottom, before dipping their finger into the melting ice cream and dabbing it into her mouth.
“You’re so hot and excited you’re melting the ice-cream”, their spanker might say, as they dip their finger into the white sticky cream, before dabbing it around their partner’s expectant lips. “Such a naughty girl, with all this slutty cream between her legs.”
After smacks have warmed her bum, the bowl can be moved up against her cheeks, so the cool porcelain numbs the stingy heat. The spanker should avoid slipping their fingers into her needy slit, leaving her frustratedly untouched. They dip into the bowl instead, and she will be teased by being told to lick the sweet yummy cream from their fingertips.
When it’s a naughty boy returning with the ice cream, he should be made to stand holding it beneath his waist, so his swelling cock dangles into the bowl. Caught with his cock in the cream, what an embarrassing way to get his bottom smacked, as his spanker scolds him for the mess he’s made.
When he’s risen too high to dangle, have him poke his erection into the bowl and gather the cream like a clumsy spoon, no hands allowed. When his shaft is sufficiently coated, he can be given an ice cream blowjob: his sweet sticky pole taken inside his disciplinarian’s mouth, who’ll take their time licking it all off.
In this game, you’re going to put your sex toys into the coldest part of your fridge.
Modern appliances tend to have a coolbox for perishable food that’s just above freezing, in this section no ice or frost forms, which makes it ideal for chilling toys. It’s best not to chill expensive electrical devices, as it can reduce the life of their batteries, but non-electrical toys will be fine. We’re not going to freeze items anyway, (definitely avoid freezing anything made of silicone, as that can make it brittle and crack).
Certain materials retain their chill longer than others. Borosilicate glass and stainless steel are dense and have high thermal conductivity, so they’ll feel coldest and warm up the slowest. Using room-temperature lube will help keep chilled toys on the right side of comfortable.
To play, you (or your partner) will visit the fridge and return with a cold toy. Your choice of what to pick.
When you return you’re going to play with it - but only until your toy warms up. When it no longer feels cold, your slutty heat has melted it, and it must be put aside.
Then you must visit the fridge again to fetch a new item. The game ends when you’ve “melted” all your toys.
Remember spanking implements like hairbrushes and spatulas also count as sex toys. But that means you’ll be getting your bottom smacked when you return with those. Be creative, if you have a magic wand, don’t put it in the fridge, but put a wet flannel in instead, then wrap the flannel around the vibe when you play - until it warms up, of course.
This is an opportunity to explore different sensations from familiar toys. You might try clenching rather than thrusting, and experience how it feels to be spanked with an implement that’s unexpectedly cold when rubbed against your warming bottom. Can you keep you cool and keep from coming?
In this game you’re guaranteed to end up dripping wet.
To play, you’ll need some ice, and two pairs of underwear. Put the second pair on over the first, and then place the ice in the gusset of the outer pair. Wearing two pairs helps keep the ice in place, it also means it melts slower, and isn’t in direct contact with the skin, so it’s more comfortable to wear.
There are many good locations for the ice to be positioned: over the pubic mound, the hood of the clitoris, between the lips over the vagina, against the perineum, over the bottom hole, or in the crevice of the buttocks. You might even like to pair the ice in the panties with cubes in the cups of a bra.
As the ice melts, the wearer will feel the wetness trickling down the inside of their thighs. Warmed to body temperature it will feel like it’s mingling with your own arousal, leaving you feeling very naughty indeed.
This game is most fun when your imagination, or your partner, treats the conspicuous wet patch as evidence of sexual arousal, rather than melted ice. Naughty boys will look like they’ve come in their pants, naughty girls will appear disgracefully soaked.
There’s no need to mention ice at all in your subsequent roleplaying, as the evidence of their excitement is undeniable. Those who come in their underwear deserve a thorough inspection, and a well-smacked bottom. And how naughty to be wearing two pairs of underwear! That must have been an attempt to conceal their illicit orgasm. Or extra padding to cheat the spanking paddle. Such subterfuge deserves a very good spanking indeed!
In this game, you’re going to spank yourself, or be spanked by your partner, then have your hot sore bum soothed with ice. The ice will numb the fiery glow, before the next round of smacks reignites the fire.
To begin, make some ice cubes, and create a kinky cold compress by wrapping the ice in some panties. This makes it more comfortable to hold as it roams across the pink spanked cheeks.
To play, you (or your partner) is going to alternate between spankings and ice play. It might begin with a teasing, the ice cube circling your breasts to stiffen your nipples, then there’s a series of spanks to warm up your bottom.
Stop after every six or twelve smacks, and then apply the ice to regions that are hot and tingly.
Detours keep things interesting, where the cold is applied between the buttocks, the perineum is a particularly good site to cool down. A naughty boy who gets too excited might need a cool grip on his shaft. A naughty girl might need the chill on her mound, and rubbed around her holes. Rub the cold beyond the curves of the bottom, venture into the unsmacked regions of the inner thighs.
You may find the soothing caress of the ice allows the spanking to last for longer than usual. The melting ice provides a hard limit: stop when it has completely melted away. Then it will be time to deal with the arousal you’ve inspired.
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Keep a record of those you try, and I hope by the end of the summer, you’ll have tried them all. Do mention your favourite game in the comments, I’d love to hear about your own innovations and improvisations.
Have fun, and I wish you many sweaty, sultry, delirious nights.
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